MDMA a love experience

I know this question must have already been asked alot but, does everyone feel horny on MDMA? It really surprises me because everyone i know says making love on it is the best experience ever...I do not at all think about that when i take it, i feel great love but a different kind of love...a love for everything around you and even when in a relationship, i do not feel that need to do anything but dance, hold hands or cuddle. Is there anybody who agrees with me? or can you say i still have a problem to overcome? I would like to hear both men and women's opinions on this, and honesty please....
your views could really help as i admit i am a bit stuck. lol.
Thanks

 

It depends on the kind of trip you're having I think. I've had a few that I've done with all guys guys where I have absolutely no longing for a girl, and they're...well they're like you say...and basically they've got a different signature feel to them. In one I feel a comprehensive love and respect and understanding for everything I can possibly think of, and in the other I don't think of shit but touching and being touched.

 

^^ well put, I second that

 

i think it is the people who feel incredibly horny who are the ones with possible 'problems' because i believe that the ecstacy love and sensation is seperate from sex, it is more that sex is an incredibly sensual activity. but with ecstacy, all sensual activities are liften to a level where they are .. well ecstacy.

so i think that incredibly feelings of horniness are caused by a mindset that equates sensuality to sex, the sort of mindset that makes a man uncomfortable touching or hugging another man, or the mindset that makes women fall submissive and wet when she feels lonely. it is the mindset that equates affection or the desire for affection with sexuality. sex can occur and even be good sex to the people involved without any affection or non-intercourse sensuality. and affection can be intense and sensual without the necessary implications of sexual tension. i believe they are seperate feelings, and that ecstacy enhances the sensual, affectionate side in people.

it is, however, the case that to a certain extent in everyones head, feeling sensual, longing for another person to touch you, and being in a situation whereby you are being highly sensual with another person automatically inspires sexual thoughts and desires.

but i do not believe that a direct effect of ecstacy is sexual heat.

 

That is exactly how i feel, thank you...

 

I believe 100% what stonerbill said.

I felt an empathetic feeling, I actually didn't think of sex other than it just popping in my head. I was more concerned with the bonds of my friends.(both male and female) I think the problem is that a SHITLOAD of people cannot make a love/sex distinction and while rolling it just intensifies this conglomerate.

People are always like "dude you gotta have chicks around when you're rolling" and this that and the other, and I just can't understand them. I kinda feel like an alien honestly, especially about love.

 

thats exactly how i feel, because everyone seems to relate MDMA with sex...i know that it is a love drug and some people cannot distinguish between love and sex but even those who can, those who do feel the love and friendship, they can pop the pills with a lover sometime and they say its a great experience...the reason i feel there may be a problem with me is cause i just can't have sex on ecstacy! That's what i don't understand...

 

It's in your head, whatever it is.

That's kinda odd.

 

i dunno about that last bit...

do you need more lubrication or something?

or do you just not feel right opening up your body with the people you roll with?

 

No i just don't feel anything while its happening! lol..
But i guess its all in my head hey, its cool...thanks!

 

So true. I dont think I've ever had sex with anyone on E, at least not on E alone.
Whenever I do E I just want to connect and absorb everything around me. I want to lay on the grass and appreciate everything that surrounds me. I want to talk to the people around me, give them the best hug, kiss them, just be loving. Yeah, I may touch people a lot more than I normally do, but like it was said before, it has nothing to do with being sexual.

 

I've never gotten anything from E or Molly other than
being high and usual physical sensations, and sometimes
a little more talkative than normal. But enhanced in the
way of sexuality or empathy has never occured to me.
Im basically a loving person normally, maybe I just
never noticed a change in how I feel for other people
because I always feel like that (unless something really
bad happens to me and I selfishly get upset).

 

Ok I just read my post and realized how vague and
non descriptive it was lol.
What I meant was that basically, I dont like to be
touched when I take E. I like to play guitar, I like
to talk with friends, but I dont like moving, dancing,
hugging, walking, etc. I just like to sit still and
meditate (nothing suprising there!) and be in God's
bliss.
I've taken E far more times than mushrooms, so were
talking well into the hundreds of times here, and I
never felt closer to people than I normally do. I just
get high, like I would on morphine, cocaine, or a light
dose of acid, and relax with my highness haha :tongue:

 

Im a very loving and emphatic person too, it just increases a lot while on E, I think it just allows your emotions to flow so much more easily.
I think probably the reason why I never feel like having sex while on E, it's because basically it makes me feel more like a child than what I normally do and Im just full of wonder and innocent love and it's happy.
I just remembered this one thing.. haha
I was once in a park with some friends doing E and I started chasing this dog because he looked lonely and scared, I ran after it for almost a block. It was this tiny white poodle. Normally I would just say.. "oh the dog is sad", but on E, I feel the need to go save the dog.
I think this just makes me sound a little bit crazy, but I hope people understand what Im trying to say.

 

See, for me its the complete opposite :tongue:
My emotions become restricted and highly
protected from being revealed, and to be
entirely honest I always enjoyed taking it
alone, which is strange becauase when I
was using all sorts of drugs in the past, I
ALWAYS wanted to have someone to share
the experience with, but with E I usually
ended up seperating myself from people so
that I could contemplate myself and how I
feel peacefully. But I guess, typically I was
taking E with people who are not very much
into philosophy/spirituality, so I never
cared much for their stoned discussions
anyway.
I guess it also has to do with my realization
that any suddenly gained ability to spill your
life story and/or emotions that before were
left secret due to insecurity were, from my
experience, well, fake and over dramatic,
and I never cared for the way people get on
it.
I've found out some friends were gay, bi
sexual, abused, thinking of breaking up from
a relationship, upset about their life style,
these kinds of things, and I always thought
to myself "Really? Why is this being dumped
on me at this moment?"
To me, it truly seems exactly like how people
get when they've had too much to drink,
and their tongues start to flap uncontrolably.
But, thats just my experience, and my
peronsal reaction to the chemical.

 

That is actually very true. I dont care much for it either, but it doesnt bother me, but to me people get more like that while being drunk or on coke. On E, Im used to people with the "I feel so alive and like a wave of joy is crashing into the universe. LIFE IS SO BEAUTIFUL!" kinda thing. But it really depends who Im with. I got a friend that whenever Im anywhere and she's on E, oh God, I have to listen to 102 random stories with no meaning and all the excitement in the world from the my little plastic ring, isnt that cute? yeah, I was in the store and I said I like and he bought it for me and then he gave it and now I have and look at it, isnt it pretty, but she knows Im really not listening ....
One of my favorite topics while on E, is to talk about energy, somehow I always end up talking about that, mostly to myself But I had so many good conversations with so many people on it, from living on a tree, how there's a whole universe inside all of us and the true meaning of the word ecstasy and why cant people just love everything. Of course Im talking from a group of people, I usually can find ONE person, I can really talk to. Hmm.. Im starting to notice that nothing really changes from my normal behavior, I just enjoy it more,
I definitely have favorite people that I like to have by my side or look for to share the thoughts in my mind. I remember sitting on a beach with a friend and we spend so much time just talking about the color of the water, how it blended with the sky and what was behind that mountain. I think it makes my imagination fly more freely than usual.

 

I think my problem is that I ate too many and now
it does nothing for me but make me feel warm
and kind of happy!
Maybe when I first started using it I would get
really high from it, I dont quite remember, but
definitley nothing special now. Oh well, at least
mushrooms will never let us down :sunny:

 

Thank you God for our mushroom friends

 

i like having shit dumped on me. i dont like having shit dumped on me and then be expected to go hug someone, no, i find that horrible and someties disgusting. but i think it is one of the best things about ecstacy - amidst all the happiness you can also learn some things that really put people into perspective. i think a lot of people forget what they tell me, but if i remember, i can feel fairly comfortable around the person. in a special way

there are some times
when

they must shuttup.

GODAMMIT SHUTTUP.

but you cant say that to someone, its mean and hurtful. we arent on coke or ice, it is ecstacy, it is sensitive. just change the subject to distract the person.

but ther are times when it gets to this... and i have to go away and sit somewhere alone. i very much like this because not only do i feel good getting away from something that annoys me so that i can enjoy myself immensely in calmness, but if i am with a group of good friends, at least one person is likely to notice that im gone and come and chill out with me, and have a good moment.

but ive not had a good roll in a while, theyve mostly been shitty.

 

I've never liked leaving the group. I am totally content with laying down and meditating and, as someone put it, immensely feelin myself, with everybody else trippin around me.