I identify as straight and date women and have had some happy relationships with them. I'm currently single, in college, and live in a dorm. Under strange circumstances my roommate and I discussed the idea of masturbating together. I suggested that we actually do it and he told me that it'd been a fantasy of his for a long time. We sorta didn't know where to go from there, but he texted me today and asked me if I'd be around tonight to do what we'd talked about. Currently, I'm debating if I want to try this. I think I'll enjoy it, but I'm not sure if I'll regret it later. Has anyone done anything like this?
It looks like it's not happening tonight because he's super busy, not back from the library yet, and I'm going to bed. Anyone got any suggestions experience?
OK I have no shame. I learned about masturbation from one of my neighbors about my age. We jacked off together with another frienda few times. Sneaking cigarettes and porn camping out together. We even joked about it years later. If you are cool with it no harm no foul. Stay Brown, Rev J
The best thing would be to wait till night time when ur both in bed and then just start doing it to yourself and like be obvious about it and look at him
We did it last night. It was really pretty sweet, we agreed before we took our pants off that we'd only touch our own and that's how we did it. He sorta led everything, he took his pants off first, and got hard before I did. We sat there naked for a few minutes and talked before either of us got a boner. I could tell he checked me out a little bit and I took a good look at him. When we actually started touching ourselves we turned and faced forwards on our beds so we couldn't really see each-other. We started exchanging verbal fantasies with each other which was really hot; he's got a lot of the same thrills that I do and a great imagination. His penis was almost exactly like mine in terms of size and shape and also cut. He masturbated much like me too although I didn't see him touching himself with his other hand like I do. We didn't really watch each-other cum, but we both sat up at the same time and he'd very neatly caught all his semen in a neat piece of paper towel and I was sitting there with jizz all over my hands and stomach. I knew he saw and I was like "yeah, I'll go shower."
Since it went well now there should be no awkwardness if you should walk in on each other. Stay Brown, Rev J
I really hope so. We talked about it briefly this morning and he didn't seem uncomfortable about it. I don't want to go any further like doing touching or anything like that, but what we did was pretty cool.
Why was it so important that you couldn't really see each toehr masturbating if you haad already checked each other out before you started? If you have already seen each other's parts, why does it make a huge difference if you see them when you are arousing yourselves?
i don't know, i've seen several dicks in the school showers, but i really have no desire to see them hard.
Yeah, but that's because school showers aren't a place where dicks are expected to be hard. But this is all about getting hard and cumming. I'm not advocating that they masturbate for each other as a sort of exhibition, but the way it was put in that post, it came off as being an attempt to deliberately hide from each other. It is that attitude I don't quite get, especially when they are doing the same thing.
I just mean that I didn't really care about watching him masturbate or cum. I liked knowing he was do it at the same time, but it wasn't the same at watching a woman finger herself for example.
We were both in the room this afternoon around lunch and decided to masturbate again. This time we put on a porn DVD and laid on our beds alternating between jacking and chatting. It was fun because it was social yet sexual at the same time. We made fun of the movie and talked about what we found hot. He ejaculated about five mins before I did, but he laid on his bed and let me finish before getting up.
Sounds interesting. probably not something i would be comfortable in doing with a male, although i do that with my fiance. I once wanked with a friend (same room, doing own thing) but i was about 13, so not sure if it counts and as a 12 year old my mates and i often did it together, about 4 of us. We all jacked our own, and never touched each other. Not sure if i would do it now, and i certainly wouldnt touch them lol. My fiance and i masturbate together often. i will stick with that. Good luck with college!