Hey, I joined this forum to ask a question. I'm female and masturbate regularly - normally by rubbing myself against a pillow. This feels OK, but I don't think I've ever orgasmed. People say you know when you have, and it seems nothing special yet. I've tried it in the shower, and whereas it works for most women, it just does not for me! Manual stimulation with my hands doesn't seem to work, but I think that's just because the flat's been cold recently. I'm going to try setting a mood and exploring more with my fingers now. I had one question though. As a virgin, will it hurt if I start penetration? And how do I go about it? Start with fingers? Also I can't seem to get myself wet enough. I don't know but in the past when I've tried to insert a finger, everything feels so tight. Maybe I'm going in at the wrong angle, I don't know! Any masturbation tips will be gratefully appreciated. I won't be finding a man soon, so please, help me orgasm!
is that what you stick up your ass anyways.. You should try stimulating your clit first...that might make it easier.. when i first started to masturbate i didnt ever stick my finger in my vagina.. I would just rub and play with my clit and that worked just fine for me...
I still don't really stick my fingers in. But you should explore your body to find out what works for you. Take a long bath, maybe look at a dirty magazine, and start to masturbate like you normally do until you are turned on enough to try other things. You just need to relax. That is key. Being nervous won't make you very horny, therefore you won't loosen up or get very wet.
