Masturbation thats more like sex

Ive always wanted to find a technique that is more like actual sex for us boys! Girls can use lots of items to simulate a dick but boys... not so much. So does anyone have any good ideas on items that can be used that you can find around the home.

Also could someone explain "pillow fucking" ive never reached climax doing it, am i doing it wrong

 

i'm a virgin but i want to know how similar female masturbation is to sex?
anyone?

 

anyone?

 

i dont find jamming a piece of plastic into my pussy simulates sex in any way shap eor form. having even just my lovers fingers inside of me is soooo much better. as for how to make masturbation a bit more realistic for guys, no clue other than some technique involving lots of lube

 

Sorry to say but masturbating never feels like real sex...even for us girls. Nothing but a real dick feels like a real dick, but if you want I know guys that dig the "fleshlight".

As for pillow fucking, I had an ex that did that. He said it's pretty much grinding his cock against a pillow (or mattress) until he came.

 

bingo-bango: http://www.fleshlight.com/main/index.php?

 

Try olive oil for a smooth simulation of entering a vagina, and google Advanced Masturbation for various techniques.

 

Pjur lubricant is awesome or you could get a fleshlight if you have the money they're really nice. If not I'd just buy some Pjur lubricant it's all you need. But you can't use Pjur on a fleshlight if you do get one, water based lubricants only. Pjor is oil based and it fucking rocks!

 

Use your imagination - the mind is the perfect sex organ

 

Treat your erection as the joy stick to your entire body ... there is no other way to express true self-indulgence and for the finest build to an orgasm masturbation is the best avenue hands down ... sex with another brings the much needed bond, desire to give to the one you are with focusing on them not yourself ... no one knows how to control your sexual need than yourself though so experiment and enjoy

 

dolls? lol

 

First off, I think that any sort of technique used during fellatio is never going to measure up to the actual thing.

Save some money up and buy yourself a fleshlight? I don't have a dick so I don't know what they feel like over a penis, but they are good sellers and receive good reviews, also do some research as to how they work.

I wouldn't suggest you go around the house looking for objects to use in placement of a cock ring etc.. And if you really think that's a great idea then take it from the pros.. Why not do a Jim from American Pie and shove your dick in a warm apple pie xD

But no seriously, even as a girl, using a dildo or a vibrator feels NOTHING like having my mans penis inside of me. Sure, both of them get me off but they sure as hell don't feel exactly the same, the only similarity is that they both go INSIDE of me and they're both long and hard... ;P

 

Put some water balloons in a bag or pillowcase and lube them up.

 

Masturbation and sex (in my experience, as a woman) are TOTALLY different. When I masturbate, it's more for the orgasm. When I have intercourse, I don't orgasm because the stimulation is totally different, but it's still nice and I still enjoy it.

 

The same applies to men. When I lost my virginity I was thinking, quite logically, that masturbation was nothing more than creating a vagina with the hand, and and that, therefore, the same technique should apply upon penetration. I soon found out, within seconds of hammering away at the same rate that I would typically masturbate at from the cries of my partner to "Take it easy" that this was NOT the case. I then followed her lead & remember being amazed at how I managed to reach an orgasm from so slow an action - although mental stimulation also adds a great deal to the outcome.

 

Fleshlight is the way to go if you want "realistic" masturbation as a guy.

 

If you're like me and think smuggling a fleshlite past all your family will be hard (especially since my mum is the post lady *cry* lol) then I have a technique which is just as good and a lot cheaper to share with you.

A man I've dubbed "the proffessor" on twitter told me how to turn a hot water bottle into a sex toy...and believe me, it bloody works!

Basically you half fill a hot water bottle with hot water (as hot as you feel necessary, just don't burn your cock...I use freshly boiled water, seems ok) and then squeeze all the air out of it.
Now you should be able to bend it in half nicely with the water equal on both sides.
If you don't want cum on your bottle then wrap your dick in a wank towel / sock / whatever to catch the cum. Either way you're gonna need a fair bit of lube (which really makes masturbation feel amazing btw!)
Now you're ready.
Place the hot water bottle on top of two pillows. Place your lubed penis (with towel on or off) in the middle of the hot water bottle. Wrap it around your penis. now wrap the pillows around the water bottle (this adds extra height for more comfort and you can lean on it). I find wrapping the pillows alternitive ways helps them to fold better. Now thrust away like you're having real sex.

It sounds like it won't be very good but once you've found the right place it'll be amazing! Nice, warm sex-like masturbation!

It really works!

I've had many amazing orgasms using this...far better than regular masturbation!

If you don't want to both with this just try filling a hot water bottle up full and rubing yourself on it or masturbating whilst your balls rest on it.

 

I can flip over on my stomach, lay one hand in top of the other, and 'penetrate' my lubricated hands in-between my middle and third finger. Basically, it's a fleshlight and a vagina with my hands.

 

I heard the "Apple Pie" method is the best way.

 

a loaf of bread with hot sauce straight out the microwave.