Masturbation Survey for Older Str8t Men (50+)

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Not certain that I have participated in one of the many surveys on this site.
How old are you? 60
Married/In relationship or single? sexless relationship
At what age did you start masturbating? 12ish
Do you still masturbate? Do bears shit in the woods?!
How many times a week do you masturbate? 21+
Do you always orgasm? It's as essential as breathing.
Do you masturbate more than once in a single day? divide weekly number by 7.
If married/in relationship does she know you masturbate? She caught me stroking once and was gently shocked. stepped back with an Oh-h-h em... Never mentioned since.
Are you open to others about masturbating? With some female friends I talk about anything sexual that they ask about. I have let them watch me after they asked if they could watch.
Where do you masturbate? anywhere when I feel the need to cum. If shopping, I'll find a hotel restroom. driving, I'll find a roadside lay-by. Friends houses, I'll find the bathroom though with the girls who have watched me, they let me do it anytime and we now chat over coffee, both nude.
In what position (lying down/standing/kneeling/sitting/lying face down? Usually standing (mostly outdoors) , sometimes sitting with legs out-stretched. Sometimes laying in bed.
Do you masturbate naked, fully clothed or partially undressed? Always nude unless in hotel restroom/roadside lay-by.
Do you use a lubricant? Sometimes.
Do you/Have you ever used a sex toy or male masturbation sleeve? no.
Do you fantasize when you masturbate? [Give details] Yes but no
Do you use porn? How often? [Give details] If my fantasies run dry, I may watch porn or to see stuff I wouldn't see in real life, I would watch it. Lesbian, frotting, mutual same-sex masturbating.
Masturbated while a woman watched? yes.
Do you ever play with another part of your body when masturbating? my mind
Do you vocalise while you masturbate / orgasm? If it's intense and I can't hold it in there'll be some noises.
Do you think masturbation is wrong? Does it make you feel guilty? Masturbation is necessary for good physical and mental health so there's no reason anyone should feel guilty.
Has sexual desire declined as you got older? No not that I can tell. I'm more confident so I do it in more places and in more scenarios than when I was younger.
Do you masturbate less now than when younger? Yes and no. When teenaged, I would wank about 5 times a day every day on my own. Now, I'll wank between 3 times a day and 8, depending on whether someone or something turns me on.
Is erection, self pleasure or orgasm different now you are older? Similar. Only difference would be that when teenaged, I could wank 5 times, almost in succession and be empty at the end. Now I must wait 20 mins between each cum.
Is is better or not? similar
Is it more difficult to achieve? what, an orgasm? Nope. I can cum in 3 minutes or I can play for 20 before cumming. Not edging, just going slowly and letting it happen when it's time.
Is masturbation important in your life? More or less so than n the past? It's an important part of life for everyone. It should be. If guys don't wank frequently and literally empty themselves, they can be more likely to have prostate issues. Yes the body gets rid of unused fluids but wanking does it sooner so everything inside will be fresher and cleaner. And women, too, if any of them read this; I've read that masturbation at least 7 times a week is required to ensure the vagina stays lubed and flexible. If it dries out or becomes inflexible, (usually post-menopause) sex can be painful and even impossible. Keep masturbating everybody.
(not medical advice from me but mentioned to be by a nurse and then a doctor).

 

How old are you? 58
Married/In relationship or single? Single
At what age did you start masturbating? 12 or so
Do you still masturbate? Yes
How many times a week do you masturbate? 3 times a week
Do you always orgasm? Yes
Do you masturbate more than once in a single day? Not usually
If married/in relationship does she know you masturbate? Past ex’s knew
Are you open to others about masturbating? Yes
Where do you masturbate? Anywhere at home, even outside on patio
In what position (lying down/standing/kneeling/sitting/lying face down? Usually sitting or lying down
Do you masturbate naked, fully clothed or partially undressed? Always naked
Do you use a lubricant? Sometimes
Do you/Have you ever used a sex toy or male masturbation sleeve? I have not
Do you fantasize when you masturbate? [Give details]. Yes… fantasize about certain women, past great sex times, or just being watched
Do you use porn? How often? [Give details]. Not much anymore. I used to watch a lot of BDSM porn or women using fuck machines. I also liked cuckold or hot wife porn
Masturbated while a woman watched? Yes, would love to do more of that.
Do you ever play with another part of your body when masturbating? Sometimes
Do you vocalise while you masturbate / orgasm? Just moan
Do you think masturbation is wrong? Does it make you feel guilty? Masturbation is never wrong. Love it all the time.
Has sexual desire declined as you got older? It feels about the same, although there can be more lulls in desire
Do you masturbate less now than when younger? Maybe a little less
Is erection, self pleasure or orgasm different now you are older? I value all of these the older I get
Is is better or not? It is better because I value and cherish it more
Is it more difficult to achieve? Sometimes
Is masturbation important in your life? More or less so than n the past? It retains the same importance.

 

How old are you? 64
Married/In relationship or single? M
At what age did you start masturbating? 10
Do you still masturbate? Oh yes
How many times a week do you masturbate? 3 or 4
Do you always orgasm? Oh yes
Do you masturbate more than once in a single day? Occasionally
If married/in relationship does she know you masturbate? Partially
Are you open to others about masturbating? N
Where do you masturbate? Bed
In what position (lying down/standing/kneeling/sitting/lying face down? Lying
Do you masturbate naked, fully clothed or partially undressed? Both
Do you use a lubricant? N
Do you/Have you ever used a sex toy or male masturbation sleeve? N
Do you fantasize when you masturbate? Lots though peculiarly they never involve me. Instead it's either people I know or strangers
Do you use porn? Erotic fiction. No images or video.How often? Most often
Masturbated while a woman watched? Y
Do you ever play with another part of your body when masturbating? N
Do you vocalise while you masturbate / orgasm? N
Do you think masturbation is wrong? Does it make you feel guilty? Y
Has sexual desire declined as you got older?Slightly
Do you masturbate less now than when younger? Slightly
Is erection, self pleasure or orgasm different now you are older? Not really
Is is better or not? About the same
Is it more difficult to achieve? N
Is masturbation important in your life? Y. More or less so than n the past? Same

 

I am a straight male in my 70's who still masturbates. I am interested in how other men like me feel about and engage in masturbation.

How old are you?
65.
Married/In relationship or single?
In a relationship
At what age did you start masturbating?
Maybe 7 or 8
Do you still masturbate?
yes
How many times a week do you masturbate?
Once or twice
Do you always orgasm?
no
Do you masturbate more than once in a single day?
rarely
If married/in relationship does she know you masturbate?
yes. She encourages it
Are you open to others about masturbating?
yes
Where do you masturbate?
In bed, massage table, living room
In what position (lying down/standing/kneeling/sitting/lying face down?
lying down, sitting, standing
Do you masturbate naked, fully clothed or partially undressed?
Almost always naked; only a robe if it's cold
Do you use a lubricant?
usually; coconut oil, or commercial lube in a sleeve
Do you/Have you ever used a sex toy or male masturbation sleeve?
yes; Fleshlight
Do you fantasize when you masturbate? [Give details]
Mostly memories of past sexual activities. Occasionally a particularly compelling porn scenario
Do you use porn? How often? [Give details]
Yes; Sometimes. Bi or Gay mostly, but not always
Masturbated while a woman watched?
yes. Men too
Do you ever play with another part of your body when masturbating?
not much
Do you vocalise while you masturbate / orgasm?
depends upon how hard I cum
Do you think masturbation is wrong? Does it make you feel guilty?
no
Has sexual desire declined as you got older?
yes
Do you masturbate less now than when younger?
yes
Is erection, self pleasure or orgasm different now you are older?
yes
Is is better or not?
not
Is it more difficult to achieve?
yes
Is masturbation important in your life? More or less so than n the past?
yes

 

How old are you? 69
Married/In relationship or single? Single/Divorced
At what age did you start masturbating? 6
Do you still masturbate? Absolutely
How many times a week do you masturbate? 3 to 4
Do you always orgasm? Yes
Do you masturbate more than once in a single day? Sometimes
If married/in relationship does she know you masturbate? She did
Are you open to others about masturbating? I never used to be, but I am now
Where do you masturbate? In a chair in front of my computer
In what position (lying down/standing/kneeling/sitting/lying face down? Sitting
Do you masturbate naked, fully clothed or partially undressed? Naked
Do you use a lubricant? No
Do you/Have you ever used a sex toy or male masturbation sleeve? No
Do you fantasize when you masturbate? [Give details] Sometimes
Do you use porn? How often? [Give details] Yes, quite often
Masturbated while a woman watched? Both men and women
Do you ever play with another part of your body when masturbating? My Scrotum and Testicles
Do you vocalise while you masturbate / orgasm? Yes, very loudly when I orgasm
Do you think masturbation is wrong? Does it make you feel guilty? I was taught that it was wrong and went through most of my life feeling guilty and ashamed for doing it, but I now realize that it's completely normal and natural!!!
Has sexual desire declined as you got older? No
Do you masturbate less now than when younger? Yes
Is erection, self pleasure or orgasm different now you are older? My erect penis doesn't stand quite as straight up as it did when I was younger, but it's still good and rigid. Masturbation is much more enjoyable now because I no longer have to deal with the shame or guilt. My orgasms seem a lot more intense, these days.
Is is better or not? Much Better
Is it more difficult to achieve? No
Is masturbation important in your life? More or less so than n the past? Very important and much more than in the past

 

How old are you? 62
Married/In relationship or single? married
At what age did you start masturbating? round about 13/14
Do you still masturbate? yes
How many times a week do you masturbate? often maybe every other day
Do you always orgasm? not every time
Do you masturbate more than once in a single day? yes, depends on my mood
If married/in relationship does she know you masturbate? yes sometimes she encourages it
Are you open to others about masturbating? mostly not my kids ( adults) or siblings
Where do you masturbate? everywhere, I'm a public mas
face down? all of the above
Do you masturbate naked, fully clothed or partially undressed? all of the above
Do you use a lubricant? sometimes but mostly no
Do you/Have you ever used a sex toy or male masturbation sleeve? a few times, but I'm not a fan
Do you fantasize when you masturbate? [Give details] some times I think about getting caught and a woman finishing me off, I have been caught but never finished off lol
Do you use porn? How often? [Give details] not often
Masturbated while a woman watched? yes a few times my wife the most often a few times my wife and her friends when they have had a drink
Do you ever play with another part of your body when masturbating? no i don't think so
Do you vocalise while you masturbate / orgasm? no sometimes i need to be quiet
Do you think masturbation is wrong? Does it make you feel guilty? it's not wrong in the right place, but you should never do it with the intention to shock or humiliate anyone and if someone complains stop and leave the areas
Has sexual desire declined as you got older? no
Do you masturbate less now than when younger? more I think, before i married ( at 21 the first time) I was very promiscuous
Is erection, self pleasure or orgasm different now you are older? sometimes its more intense depending on the situation, my penis is different now, it has a bend to the left
Is is better or not? better i think
Is it more difficult to achieve? no sometimes i loose my erection before finishing but that's not often
Is masturbation important in your life? More or less so than n the past? it has always been important and still is, it gives me a lot of pleasure

 

How old are you? 70
Married/In relationship or single? married
At what age did you start masturbating? 12/13
Do you still masturbate? yes
How many times a week do you masturbate? 3-4 times sometimes more
Do you always orgasm? yes
Do you masturbate more than once in a single day? rarely
If married/in relationship does she know you masturbate? yes
Are you open to others about masturbating? not really
Where do you masturbate? at home
face down? no
Do you masturbate naked, fully clothed or partially undressed? naked
Do you use a lubricant? 50/50
Do you/Have you ever used a sex toy or male masturbation sleeve? yes, I own several
Do you fantasize when you masturbate? [Give details] Yes, usually about a gal I have recently met
Do you use porn? How often? [Give details] Yes - Very often
Masturbated while a woman watched? My wife likes watching me sometimes
Do you ever play with another part of your body when masturbating? no i don't think so
Do you vocalise while you masturbate / orgasm? I usually grunt when I orgasm
Do you think masturbation is wrong? Does it make you feel guilty? No - its a normal human activity
Has sexual desire declined as you got older? no
Do you masturbate less now than when younger? No, no longer get much sex so I masturbate .... a lot
Is erection, self pleasure or orgasm different now you are older? about the same
Is is better or not? better
Is it more difficult to achieve? No
Is masturbation important in your life? Yes indeed since I get little other sexual satisfaction

 

I am a straight male in my 70's who still masturbates. I am interested in how other men like me feel about and engage in masturbation.

How old are you?
Married/In relationship or single?
At what age did you start masturbating?
Do you still masturbate?
How many times a week do you masturbate?
Do you always orgasm?
Do you masturbate more than once in a single day?
If married/in relationship does she know you masturbate?
Are you open to others about masturbating?
Where do you masturbate?
In what position (lying down/standing/kneeling/sitting/lying face down?
Do you masturbate naked, fully clothed or partially undressed?
Do you use a lubricant?
Do you/Have you ever used a sex toy or male masturbation sleeve?
Do you fantasize when you masturbate? [Give details]
Do you use porn? How often? [Give details]
Masturbated while a woman watched?
Do you ever play with another part of your body when masturbating?
Do you vocalise while you masturbate / orgasm?
Do you think masturbation is wrong? Does it make you feel guilty?
Has sexual desire declined as you got older?
Do you masturbate less now than when younger?
Is erection, self pleasure or orgasm different now you are older?
Is is better or not?
Is it more difficult to achieve?
Is masturbation important in your life? More or less so than n the past?

 

I too am a straight male in my 70's who still masturbates.

How old are you? 76
Married/In relationship or single? Married
At what age did you start masturbating? 13
Do you still masturbate? Oh Yes
How many times a week do you masturbate? It varies with circumstances. On average 3-4 times but often more
Do you always orgasm? Of course
Do you masturbate more than once in a single day? When I can
If married/in relationship does she know you masturbate? Yes
Are you open to others about masturbating? No
Where do you masturbate? Anywhere at home
In what position (lying down/standing/kneeling/sitting/lying face down? Sitting, standing usually
Do you masturbate naked, fully clothed or partially undressed? Usually partially undressed
Do you use a lubricant? Sometimes - it varies. Sometimes I am more highly aroused when using a lubricant and on other
occasions it is more arousing without. I masturbate more frequently without using a lubricant. Lubrication allows me to masturbate more vigorously.
Do you/Have you ever used a sex toy or male masturbation sleeve? Yes but I'm not particularly fond of them
Do you fantasize when you masturbate? [Give details] Yes when I'm not using images or videos which I do mostly. I fantasise about masturbating in front of someone
Do you use porn? How often? [Give details] Usually (80%) I only use soft porn, favouring amateur images an video clips and vintage pin ups
Masturbated while a woman watched? Yes
Do you ever play with another part of your body when masturbating? Sometimes
Do you vocalise while you masturbate / orgasm? Yes - always as I am about to cum and orgasm
Do you think masturbation is wrong? Does it make you feel guilty? No
Has sexual desire declined as you got older? Not desire but potency
Do you masturbate less now than when younger? No
Is erection, self pleasure or orgasm different now you are older? Yes
Is is better or not? Different
Is it more difficult to achieve? Yes
Is masturbation important in your life? More or less so than n the past? It has always been an important part of my adult life. This has not changed

 

How old are you? mid 50s
Married/In relationship or single? married
At what age did you start masturbating? as soon as I started having wet dreams, maybe 11-12
Do you still masturbate? yes
How many times a week do you masturbate? 5-7
Do you always orgasm? yes
Do you masturbate more than once in a single day? sometimes as many as 3 times in a day, if I'm home alone (still have a child living at home)
If married/in relationship does she know you masturbate? yes
Are you open to others about masturbating? not in general
Where do you masturbate? most anywhere at home, mostly our room
In what position (lying down/standing/kneeling/sitting/lying face down? Yes.
Do you masturbate naked, fully clothed or partially undressed? Usually naked
Do you use a lubricant? Only on occasion
Do you/Have you ever used a sex toy or male masturbation sleeve? Yes, sleeve a few times, vibrator sometimes, every so often a dildo in the ass
Do you fantasize when you masturbate? [Give details] I think about fucking people. Straight, in the sense that I've never done anything sexual with a man, but I do think about sex with both men and women. Love remembering the most recent times I'd fucked my wife as I jack off
Do you use porn? How often? [Give details] Frequently, I masturbate to porn. Again, usually straight sex, often curvy women, frequently those in the milf/mature category. Sometimes, jack off to gay or bi sessions.
Masturbated while a woman watched? With my wife numerous times. With a previous girlfriend who sometimes didn't like to swallow, I'd jack off to finish after she sucked me. She was usually just out of facial range, watching me cum.
Do you ever play with another part of your body when masturbating? Balls, sometimes pinch my nipples, and of course fingers or dildo up my ass are nice.
Do you vocalise while you masturbate / orgasm? Only if I'm either alone at home, or it's just me and my wife there.
Do you think masturbation is wrong? Does it make you feel guilty? I wouldn't want to do it in public, but don't have any issue with anyone making themselves cum.
Has sexual desire declined as you got older? Been pretty much horny since I was a kid.
Do you masturbate less now than when younger? Roughly the same as I have anytime since my earliest, cum-whenever-you-aren't-in-public sort of teens or so.
Is erection, self pleasure or orgasm different now you are older? I eat my precum more now than I had when I was younger.
Is is better or not? As good as ever
Is it more difficult to achieve? Not really. Often wake up with a hard on, frequently go to sleep after having just had one...if you get my drift.
Is masturbation important in your life? More or less so than n the past? Always been a big part of my sexual life. Since we're older now and she's a little less frequently interested in sex, I'd say I have a higher masturbation-to-fuck ratio than when we were younger and went at it like rabbits.

 

How old are you? 61
Married/In relationship or single? Married
At what age did you start masturbating? 12
Do you still masturbate? Yes
How many times a week do you masturbate? Once or twice but not every week.
Do you always orgasm? 95% of the time, it's why I'm doing it.
Do you masturbate more than once in a single day? It's been a long time.
If married/in relationship does she know you masturbate? Yes
Are you open to others about masturbating? No
Where do you masturbate? Livingroom recliner, home office where computer is, or on the deck in the summer.
In what position (lying down/standing/kneeling/sitting/lying face down? Leaning back a bit in a chair.
Do you masturbate naked, fully clothed or partially undressed? After a shower fully nude but usually just drop my pants.
Do you use a lubricant? No
Do you/Have you ever used a sex toy or male masturbation sleeve? Yes, I had a flesh light, it was great,
Do you fantasize when you masturbate? [Give details] Yes, about sucking and being sucked.
Do you use porn? How often? [Give details] Yes, and cock sucking (men or women) is my go to.
Masturbated while a woman watched? Did so many times sitting next to my wife on the living room loveseat, she helps out.
Do you ever play with another part of your body when masturbating? Yes, my bung hole.
Do you vocalise while you masturbate / orgasm? Yes, especially when I'm about to cum.
Do you think masturbation is wrong? Does it make you feel guilty? It's perfectly normal for both men and women to masturbate.
Has sexual desire declined as you got older? slightly
Do you masturbate less now than when younger? YES
Is erection, self pleasure or orgasm different now you are older? It takes longer to get hard, and I shoot far less cum versus during my younger years.
Is is better or not? It still feels good.
Is it more difficult to achieve? It can be at times.
Is masturbation important in your life? More or less so than n the past? Far less today then during the age of 18-45

 

How old are you? 63
Married/In relationship or single? Married
At what age did you start masturbating? 13
Do you still masturbate? Yes
How many times a week do you masturbate? A couple times a month
Do you always orgasm? Yes
Do you masturbate more than once in a single day? no
If married/in relationship does she know you masturbate? Yes,
Are you open to others about masturbating? no
Where do you masturbate? Shower occasionally, but mostly out in my shop
In what position (lying down/standing/kneeling/sitting/lying face down? Standing or laying down
Do you masturbate naked, fully clothed or partially undressed? Mostly naked
Do you use a lubricant? Yes
Do you/Have you ever used a sex toy or male masturbation sleeve? Fleshlight, or my wife’s long forgotten dildos.
Do you fantasize when you masturbate? [Give details] Yes, and it just depends on my mood. my go to his memories or fantasies about sharing my wife
Do you use porn? How often? [Give details] Yes, and probably 75% of the time. My go to genre is Hotwife,mfms, an occasionally dabble in more fringe
Masturbated while a woman watched? Yes
Do you ever play with another part of your body when masturbating? Balls and ass
Do you vocalise while you masturbate / orgasm? Just a good grunt or an “oh shit”
Do you think masturbation is wrong? no Does it make you feel guilty? At times
Has sexual desire declined as you got older? Yes
Do you masturbate less now than when younger? Oh yeah,
Is erection, self pleasure or orgasm different now you are older? Erection isn’t what it used to be, but the pleasure and orgasms are still good
Is is better or not? Not
Is it more difficult to achieve? Yes
Is masturbation important in your life? Yes More or less so than n the past? Less