Masturbation Questionnaire (Older Persons)

Masturbation Questionnaire
Answer these questions in as much detail as pssible..

Background information
1. What age are you?
2. Are you male or female?
2. How old were you when you first found out about masturbation? How did you learn about it?
4. When did you start masturbating? Was it immediately successful or did it take time to reach your first orgasm?
5. How old were you when you first masturbated to orgasm?
6. Did you feel guilty about touching yourself?
7. Were you afraid of being caught?

Answer these questions about your masturbation habits:
1. Why do you masturbate?
2. What time of day do you usually masturbate?
3. How often do you masturbate?
4. How long do your sessions typically last?
5. What are your habits with masturbation?
6. How has masturbation changed for you throughout your life?
7. How do you touch/pleasure yourself? Which parts of your body do you touch? How much focus/attention do you put on different parts of your body?
8. Do you use your right hand? Your left hand? Both hands? What is your grip like? Is it hard? Soft?
9. Do you use lube, toys, or anything else?
10. What do you think about when you masturbate? Do you fantasize?
11. Do you use porn or other external sources of stimulation?
12. What types of porn? Images? Video? What “genre” of porn?
13. Do you get bored easily and keep changing images/videos? What are you looking for when you do this? 14. What is the setting usually like? Lighting, mood, fragrance, music, etc.?
15. Do you ever masturbate with a partner? If so, how is that different from or similar to solo masturbation? 16. Do you hide your masturbation from your partner? Wait for them to leave, etc?
17. Do you ever share this (that you have masturbated) with your partner?
18. Do you find yourself holding off in masturbation or climax because it might affect your erection and ability to perform with your partner?
19. Do you find masturbation increases or decreases your desire for sex?
20. Has masturbation ever affected your ability to perform sexually?
21. What quality and quantity of pleasure do you derive from masturbation? Does this vary from session to session? If so, what accounts for the variation?
22. If you were to put it into words, how would you describe what your orgasms feel like?
23. Are you silent while you masturbate? Do you make any kinds of sounds? What kinds of sound? Just when you cum? Throughout? Neither?
24. How do you feel after you cum? Tired? Drained? Peaceful? Invigorated? Energized? Something else? 25. For you, is ejaculation and orgasm the same or different? Explain.
26. What do you do that makes masturbation more enjoyable and fulfilling?
27. What do you do that makes masturbation less enjoyable and fulfilling?
28. What do you call masturbation - e.g. wanking, tossing, jerking?

Next, carve some time out for yourself and masturbate as you usually do. Only this time, intentionally check in with yourself regularly throughout to notice things like:
1. Notice how you are breathing before you start. Describe.
2. Notice how your breathing changes (if at all) as you get more aroused. Describe.
3. Notice how your breathing changes as you orgasm. Describe.
4. Notice how your breathing is post-orgasm. Describe.
5. Where did you feel your orgasm? In your genitals? In other parts of your body?
6. What did you notice about this particular session that is different from what you already wrote above about your general masturbation habits?

Finish these sentences…
1. Masturbation is…
2. I wish masturbation would be…
3. I find it challenging to admit to myself about my masturbation that…
4. After climaxing. I feel…..

 

Masturbation Questionnaire
Answer these questions in as much detail as pssible..

Background information
1. What age are you? 76
2. Are you male or female? Male
2. How old were you when you first found out about masturbation? How did you learn about it? 11 - the older cousin of a friend asked several of us if we would like to see him "having a wank". He pulled down his trousers and underpants and sat on his bed with a prodigious erection which he commenced to stroke slowly and vigorously. It was the first erection I had seen and I was amazed and fascinated by the way the end of his cock was exposed (I was uncircumcised), the rippple of veins on his shaft and that a penis could be so large and so firm that it stood up in its own. We watched fascinated for afew minutes then left him to it so we did not get to see him cum.
4. When did you start masturbating? Was it immediately successful or did it take time to reach your first orgasm? I was 13 It took several attempts over a number of weeks before I finally had an amazing orgasm. I knew about stroking your erection and that most of my peers were doing it regularly and making themselves 'cum' but I had no idea how powerful orgasm and ejaculation was.
5. How old were you when you first masturbated to orgasm? 13
6. Did you feel guilty about touching yourself? No, I knew it was normal but, like everyone, I was terrified of being found out
7. Were you afraid of being caught? Very much so. Initially, I masturbated slowly and undressed but, as time went on, I took to masturbating with my underwear lowered so that I could re-dress quickly if someone came home and I might be caught out

Answer these questions about your masturbation habits:
1. Why do you masturbate? Because it is incredibly enjoyable, it is good for your sexual health, and it is empowering
2. What time of day do you usually masturbate? No specific time
3. How often do you masturbate? Not as often as I did when I was younger. Nowadays about 3-4 times a week but sometimes more and occasionally more than once in a single day
4. How long do your sessions typically last? Between 20 minutes to an hour but much longer when I have the opportunity
5. What are your habits with masturbation? I look at soft porn or read about sex and masturbation to get in the mood. I stroke myself through my underwear until aroused and then undress and masturbate with my hand(s)
6. How has masturbation changed for you throughout your life? Of course. When I was young I masturbated profusely. I wasn't circumcised and masturbated using my fingertips, slowly and gently taking as long as possible or using my foreskin against my glans.I always wanted to be able to stroke myself aggressively using my whole hand along the entire length of my shaft but was not able to do this until I was circumcised in my 30's
7. How do you touch/pleasure yourself? Which parts of your body do you touch? How much focus/attention do you put on different parts of your body? I have rarely chosen to masturbate in order to cum as quickly as possible and prefer to take my time and enjoy self pleasuring. I often play with my nipples and press the fingers of my other hand either side of the base of my erection or apply pressure to the perineum between my testicles and my anus which delays and intensifies orgasm
8. Do you use your right hand? Your left hand? Both hands? What is your grip like? Is it hard? Soft? I use my dominant hand but occasionally both. My grip is light until I approach orgasm when I use a firm grip
9. Do you use lube, toys, or anything else? I have tried toys but they are not part of my routine. I masturbate dry or with lubricant depending on how I feel and what intensifies arousal on each occasion.
10. What do you think about when you masturbate? Do you fantasize? Fantasy is not a big part of my masturbation because i prefer to look at images or watch as I touch myself
11. Do you use porn or other external sources of stimulation? About 60-70% of the time. Only ever soft porn usually homemade
12. What types of porn? Images? Video? What “genre” of porn? Soft images and videos usually of women masturbating. I have a fondness for vintage images from the 1960's, lots of panties on show, bare boobs, stocking tops and copious bush
13. Do you get bored easily and keep changing images/videos? What are you looking for when you do this? Variety stops things getting stale and predictable and i like to vary how I masturbate
14. What is the setting usually like? Lighting, mood, fragrance, music, etc.? N/A
15. Do you ever masturbate with a partner? If so, how is that different from or similar to solo masturbation? Yes. It is veryexciting and intimate
16. Do you hide your masturbation from your partner? Wait for them to leave, etc? Yes
17. Do you ever share this (that you have masturbated) with your partner? Yes
18. Do you find yourself holding off in masturbation or climax because it might affect your erection and ability to perform with your partner? No
19. Do you find masturbation increases or decreases your desire for sex? Increases
20. Has masturbation ever affected your ability to perform sexually? No
21. What quality and quantity of pleasure do you derive from masturbation? Does this vary from session to session? If so, what accounts for the variation? Yes it varies significantly with mood. Sometimes I need to cum quickly but usually I like to enjoy touching myself as much as orgasm. Sometimes it is more arousing 'dry' but at other times far more arousing using a lubricant. I generally use soft images but often prefer to watch myself masturbate and cum
22. If you were to put it into words, how would you describe what your orgasms feel like? An intense sensitivity leading to pressure which rises up my erection and burst in spasms of intense pleasure
23. Are you silent while you masturbate? Do you make any kinds of sounds? What kinds of sound? Just when you cum? Throughout? Neither? Varies. I nearly always make sounds when I orgasm but often during masturbation or from the very beginning. I always 'announce' my orgasms [e.g. I'm gonna cum, here i cum] and often comment on masturbating, how my erection feels and how I am feeling as I stroke. Vocalising is erotic and heightens sensation and pleasure and I always 'moan' as I cum
24. How do you feel after you cum? Tired? Drained? Peaceful? Invigorated? Energized? Something else? Relaxed and energised
25. For you, is ejaculation and orgasm the same or different? Explain. No - it is possible to ejaculate without orgasm (or with a weak level of orgasm) and possible to orgasm without really producing much semen.
26. What do you do that makes masturbation more enjoyable and fulfilling? When it is intense/strong and accompanied by a significant leevl of ejaculation
27. What do you do that makes masturbation less enjoyable and fulfilling? Take as long as possible, enjoy stroking for its own pleasure and being as erotic as I can
28. What do you call masturbation - e.g. wanking, tossing, jerking? Masturbating

Next, carve some time out for yourself and masturbate as you usually do. Only this time, intentionally check in with yourself regularly throughout to notice things like:
1. Notice how you are breathing before you start. Describe. Calm, relaxed, sensing the anticipation
2. Notice how your breathing changes (if at all) as you get more aroused. Describe. Breathing becomes slower and deeper
3. Notice how your breathing changes as you orgasm. Describe. As orgasm and ejaculation approaches my breathing in hard and fast
4. Notice how your breathing is post-orgasm. Describe. Breathing deeply and slowly
5. Where did you feel your orgasm? In your genitals? In other parts of your body? In my groin and testicles, along the shaft and in my glans
6. What did you notice about this particular session that is different from what you already wrote above about your general masturbation habits? More aroused and intnse

Finish these sentences…
1. Masturbation is… Exciting, empowering making me aware of my body and intense
2. I wish masturbation would be… As profuse as it was when I was young and could masturbate several times a day and produce incredibly powerful orgasms and ejaculate copiously
3. I find it challenging to admit to myself about my masturbation that… Is not as intense or prodigious as when I was younger
4. After climaxing. I feel…..Relaxed and empowered

 

Background information
1. What age are you? 73
2. Are you male or female? Male
2. How old were you when you first found out about masturbation? How did you learn about it? 19, Penthouse letters.
4. When did you start masturbating? Was it immediately successful or did it take time to reach your first orgasm? 19, came within a few minutes
5. How old were you when you first masturbated to orgasm? Again 19
6. Did you feel guilty about touching yourself? Absolutely no!
7. Were you afraid of being caught? That I was.

Answer these questions about your masturbation habits:
1. Why do you masturbate? It feels good and relieves tension.
2. What time of day do you usually masturbate? Early morning but sometimes again in the afternoon.
3. How often do you masturbate? At least 5 times a week
4. How long do your sessions typically last? anywhere from a half hour to an hour or more
5. What are your habits with masturbation? watching porn while laying back and stroking away.
6. How has masturbation changed for you throughout your life? The internet allowed me to go from letters to video.
7. How do you touch/pleasure yourself? Which parts of your body do you touch? How much focus/attention do you put on different parts of your body? Of course my cock but I also play with my nipples and occasionally my ass.
8. Do you use your right hand? Your left hand? Both hands? What is your grip like? Is it hard? Soft? Either hand, hard or soft grip
9. Do you use lube, toys, or anything else? Sometimes dry, sometimes lube, sometimes baby powder, and sometimes toys.
10. What do you think about when you masturbate? Do you fantasize? I have many fetishes I delve into.
11. Do you use porn or other external sources of stimulation? Yes, always
12. What types of porn? Images? Video? What “genre” of porn? Mostly video and several genre's.
13. Do you get bored easily and keep changing images/videos? What are you looking for when you do this? I do get frustrated with the action at times. Then I'll find what I need and enjoy from there.
14. What is the setting usually like? Lighting, mood, fragrance, music, etc.? Dark or dimly lit most times. I also like a bright room too.
15. Do you ever masturbate with a partner? No, always solo
16. Do you hide your masturbation from your partner? I don't want her to be embarrassed so I keep it private
17. Do you ever share this (that you have masturbated) with your partner? Only if she asks
18. Do you find yourself holding off in masturbation or climax because it might affect your erection and ability to perform with your partner? Yes, when I know I'm going to have some pussy soon.
19. Do you find masturbation increases or decreases your desire for sex? neither, it just sates me for a while
20. Has masturbation ever affected your ability to perform sexually? No
21. What quality and quantity of pleasure do you derive from masturbation? Does this vary from session to session? If so, what accounts for the variation? Depending on how my body feels the pleasure varies.
22. If you were to put it into words, how would you describe what your orgasms feel like? Sometimes they're just there. Other times toe curling.
23. Are you silent while you masturbate? Do you make any kinds of sounds? What kinds of sound? Just when you cum? Throughout? Neither? I start quiet and then begin to talk vulgar.
24. How do you feel after you cum? Tired, drained, and peaceful
25. For you, is ejaculation and orgasm the same or different? They are different. I orgasm without ejaculating sometimes.
26. What do you do that makes masturbation more enjoyable and fulfilling? I get lost in the feeling of my cock being stroked and the sight I see in the videos.
27. What do you do that makes masturbation less enjoyable and fulfilling? I don't try to lessen masturbation.
28. What do you call masturbation - e.g. wanking, tossing, jerking? Solo sex, self love, or just plain masturbation.

Here is where I'll stop until I have solo sex again. In the meantime I'm off to get some pussy.

Next, carve some time out for yourself and masturbate as you usually do. Only this time, intentionally check in with yourself regularly throughout to notice things like:
1. Notice how you are breathing before you start. Describe.
2. Notice how your breathing changes (if at all) as you get more aroused. Describe.
3. Notice how your breathing changes as you orgasm. Describe.
4. Notice how your breathing is post-orgasm. Describe.
5. Where did you feel your orgasm? In your genitals? In other parts of your body?
6. What did you notice about this particular session that is different from what you already wrote above about your general masturbation habits?

Finish these sentences…
1. Masturbation is…
2. I wish masturbation would be…
3. I find it challenging to admit to myself about my masturbation that…
4. After climaxing. I feel…..

 

Background information
1. What age are you? 62
2. Are you male or female? Male
2. How old were you when you first found out about masturbation? 12 How did you learn about it? Started doing it
4. When did you start masturbating? 12 Was it immediately successful or did it take time to reach your first orgasm? I did but I didn’t cum the first time. I came the second time
5. How old were you when you first masturbated to orgasm? 12
6. Did you feel guilty about touching yourself? No
7. Were you afraid of being caught? Yes

Answer these questions about your masturbation habits:
1. Why do you masturbate? It feels great
2. What time of day do you usually masturbate? Morning or early afternoon
3. How often do you masturbate? Couple times a week
4. How long do your sessions typically last? Three hours
5. What are your habits with masturbation? Usually in my bed
6. How has masturbation changed for you throughout your life? I do a lot more edging now
7. How do you touch/pleasure yourself? Which parts of your body do you touch? How much focus/attention do you put on different parts of your body? Usually just my dick
8. Do you use your right hand? Your left hand? Both hands? What is your grip like? Is it hard? Soft? Both hands. Soft grip
9. Do you use lube, toys, or anything else? Lube
10. What do you think about when you masturbate? Do you fantasize? Since I started one of my favorite things to think about is my best friend’s mom. Also like to fantasize about women wrestling. My friend’s mom is often involved in that also
11. Do you use porn or other external sources of stimulation? Pictures/videos of women wrestling
12. What types of porn? Images? Video? What “genre” of porn? See number 11
13. Do you get bored easily and keep changing images/videos? What are you looking for when you do this? Not really 14. What is the setting usually like? Lighting, mood, fragrance, music, etc.? Light
15. Do you ever masturbate with a partner? If so, how is that different from or similar to solo masturbation? No 16. Do you hide your masturbation from your partner? Wait for them to leave, etc? No
17. Do you ever share this (that you have masturbated) with your partner? Yes
18. Do you find yourself holding off in masturbation or climax because it might affect your erection and ability to perform with your partner? No
19. Do you find masturbation increases or decreases your desire for sex? Neither
20. Has masturbation ever affected your ability to perform sexually? Sometimes
21. What quality and quantity of pleasure do you derive from masturbation? Does this vary from session to session? If so, what accounts for the variation? Pretty much stays the same. I make sure I carve out a good few hours
22. If you were to put it into words, how would you describe what your orgasms feel like? Wonderful and satisfying
23. Are you silent while you masturbate? Do you make any kinds of sounds? What kinds of sound? Just when you cum? Throughout? Neither? No noise usually
24. How do you feel after you cum? Tired? Drained? Peaceful? Invigorated? Energized? Something else? Very relaxed 25. For you, is ejaculation and orgasm the same or different? Explain. The same
26. What do you do that makes masturbation more enjoyable and fulfilling? I make sure I have enough time to do it right
27. What do you do that makes masturbation less enjoyable and fulfilling? Nothing really
28. What do you call masturbation - e.g. wanking, tossing, jerking? Jerking

Next, carve some time out for yourself and masturbate as you usually do. Only this time, intentionally check in with yourself regularly throughout to notice things like:
1. Notice how you are breathing before you start. Describe. Very slow
2. Notice how your breathing changes (if at all) as you get more aroused. Describe. Definitely speeds up
3. Notice how your breathing changes as you orgasm. Describe. Strong exhale
4. Notice how your breathing is post-orgasm. Describe. Slowly calms down
5. Where did you feel your orgasm? In your genitals? In other parts of your body? All over
6. What did you notice about this particular session that is different from what you already wrote above about your general masturbation habits? I was more aware

Finish these sentences…
1. Masturbation is…fantastic
2. I wish masturbation would be…able to last longer
3. I find it challenging to admit to myself about my masturbation that…
4. After climaxing. I feel…. Relaxed

 

1. What age are you? 69
2. Are you male or female? Male?
2. How old were you when you first found out about masturbation? 6 How did you learn about it? I was molested by a 30 year old male and he showed me how by stroking my penis
4. When did you start masturbating? 6 Was it immediately successful or did it take time to reach your first orgasm? Yes immediately, the same 30 year old male stroked me until I had my first "dry orgasm"
5. How old were you when you first masturbated to orgasm? 6, I continued masturbating regularly after he showed me how.
6. Did you feel guilty about touching yourself? Yes, I was taught that masturbation was a sin, but it never stopped me.
7. Were you afraid of being caught? Yes, I would have gotten spanked if my parents would have caught me.

Answer these questions about your masturbation habits:
1. Why do you masturbate? It feels great to orgasm. I love to feel of my erect penis in my hand.
2. What time of day do you usually masturbate? Mourning or early afternoon
3. How often do you masturbate? 3 to 4 times a week
4. How long do your sessions typically last? 2 to 3 hours
5. What are your habits with masturbation? Sitting in front of my computer viewing my favorite women or reading erotic stories.
6. How has masturbation changed for you throughout your life? Yes, I always edge for hours and eat my cum. I never used to edge and I hardly ever ate my cum.
7. How do you touch/pleasure yourself? Which parts of your body do you touch? How much focus/attention do you put on different parts of your body? Usually just my penis and I grasp it gently and firmly between my thumb and fingertips.
8. Do you use your right hand? Your left hand? Both hands? What is your grip like? Is it hard? Soft? Left hand until just before orgasm and then I switch. Gentle, yet firm grip
9. Do you use lube, toys, or anything else? Nothing, just my hand
10. What do you think about when you masturbate? Do you fantasize? I fantasize about the naked women that I am looking at.
11. Do you use porn or other external sources of stimulation? Naked women, trans women, lesbian sex, women masturbating
12. What types of porn? Images? Video? What “genre” of porn? Images and videos Also, see number 11
13. Do you get bored easily and keep changing images/videos? What are you looking for when you do this? Yes, I change images and videos often, but not out of boredom.
14. What is the setting usually like? Lighting, mood, fragrance, music, etc.? Generally well lit. No fragrance or music. I like hearing the women scream when they orgasm!!
15. Do you ever masturbate with a partner? If so, how is that different from or similar to solo masturbation? Yes. It was used for foreplay, teasing and entertainment purposes.
16. Do you hide your masturbation from your partner? Wait for them to leave, etc? No
17. Do you ever share this (that you have masturbated) with your partner? Yes
18. Do you find yourself holding off in masturbation or climax because it might affect your erection and ability to perform with your partner? No
19. Do you find masturbation increases or decreases your desire for sex? Truthfully, I think it increases my desire.
20. Has masturbation ever affected your ability to perform sexually? Never
21. What quality and quantity of pleasure do you derive from masturbation? Does this vary from session to session? If so, what accounts for the variation? I derive a great deal of pleasure from masturbating. It varies because of time constraint. I like to edge for long periods of time before I cum.
22. If you were to put it into words, how would you describe what your orgasms feel like? AMAZING, AWESOME, extremely loud!!!!
23. Are you silent while you masturbate? Do you make any kinds of sounds? What kinds of sound? Just when you cum? Throughout? Neither? I am silent during masturbation, but I get very vocal during orgasm and cumming!!
24. How do you feel after you cum? Tired? Drained? Peaceful? Invigorated? Energized? Something else? Happy, relaxed, satiated and at peace
25. For you, is ejaculation and orgasm the same or different? Explain. The same
26. What do you do that makes masturbation more enjoyable and fulfilling? I make sure that I have enough time to edge for as long as I like.
27. What do you do that makes masturbation less enjoyable and fulfilling? Why would I do anything to make it less fulfilling?
28. What do you call masturbation - e.g. wanking, tossing, jerking? Masturbating

Next, carve some time out for yourself and masturbate as you usually do. Only this time, intentionally check in with yourself regularly throughout to notice things like:
1. Notice how you are breathing before you start. Describe. Normal
2. Notice how your breathing changes (if at all) as you get more aroused. Describe. It quickens and then comes in gasps as I near orgasm
3. Notice how your breathing changes as you orgasm. Describe. I am generally gasping at orgasm
4. Notice how your breathing is post-orgasm. Describe. Quickly returns to normal
5. Where did you feel your orgasm? In your genitals? In other parts of your body? Mostly in my groin and my mind
6. What did you notice about this particular session that is different from what you already wrote above about your general masturbation habits? Nothing comes to mind

Finish these sentences…
1. Masturbation is…Amazing, awesome, normal, natural, safe, fun and very simple way to get extreme pleasure
2. I wish masturbation would be…I wish I could experience multiple orgasms like women!!
3. I find it challenging to admit to myself about my masturbation that…At one time I found it challenging to admit that I masturbated. Only within the last few years have I learned to get over the guilt and shame that my parents drummed into my head. It's ridiculous as it took me almost 50 years to get over the shame and guilt.
4. After climaxing. I feel…. Relaxed, physically spent, mentally and emotionally at ease, satisfied