when i lie down and simulate sex i have no problem orgasming but when i masturbate normaly it takes me a long time to *** sometimes it doesnt even work...i mean i enjoy it but i dont orgsam ..is there something wrong with me? btw im a straight male
to be honest I am the same, and if you tend to masturbate a lot, then this is probably the problem. I find that it causes my cock to be less sensitive so I am forced to masturbate harder and faster rather than being able to simply acheive orgasm easily. It is very frustrating especially with me and my girlfriend, but try to cut down maybe on masturbating, thats what Im doing. Trying to go an entire month without masturbating, it sounds hard and I know its gonna be, but I also know I want my GF to be happy so Im gonna try it
I understand what your saying. I can't masturbate without watching porn these days, unless I'm in the shower. I'm pretty horny these days but I try and wait until night time to masturbate but this can take me a couple hours sometimes. Try changing the kind of porn you're watching or maybe try something new. I know it sounds weird but lately I've enjoyed anal play or using lube on my penis. This entra eroticism makes me cum faster due to increased horniness created by these more kinky acts. I am straight as well and it's not gay at all to enjoy anal play or things like it.
I have to agree with trhe part about lube on the penis, there is this sense that it causes that makes this extremely pleasurable - especially if your not circumsized, as obviously the head will be more sensitive, and I can't really say i don't enjoy experimenting with anal play, although I don't tend to do it much when me and my GF have sex, she usually plays with my balls and rubs my perenium whilse she jacks me off so it stimulates my g-spot from outside, but we've never tried actually inserting a finger or anything before....
