I need some help with my boyfriend. He's 52. He has trouble with ED when we're having sex. He seems to have a great sex drive and seems to be very interested almost all the time. I know he masturbates regularly and uses a vibrator on the end of his penis. Whenever he masterbates he gets hard. When we have sex though he can't keep an erection but if I stop and jerk him off he has no problem getting a hard on. He can also cum inside me without a hard on. He also has a past of visiting the massage parlor and seems to enjoy getting a hand job there as well. Wondering if I'm in over my head or if this type of problem is normal for his age??? Any advice would be appreciated.
I love getting a hand job. Sex can become ho hum so its always good to mix it up. I dont think its a problem, it is what it is.