ok, my boyfriend always asks me to let him watch me masturbate. at first it felt weird, i've never experienced that before other than in my room by myself. i did do it for him but i couldn't orgasm like i do when i'm solo.. i guess i came close a couple of times but no matter how hard i tried to relax it just wouldn't happen with someone watching me.. even if it is my boyfriend whom i love to death.i know he wouldn't judge me either, actually i know it would turn him on like nothing elsee. i also have this problem during sex. girls, any advice on how to just relax and just let yourself cum in front of someone else? also, i'm so used to watching porn and masturbating that i can't orgasm without watching it. any advice on breaking that habit as well?
A girl who openly likes porn is decidedly sexy. Has your boyfriend come while you watched? Maybe do it together once, and see how it goes. Good luck. :2thumbsup:
i agree with Cherea, you might feel more comfortable if all the attention is not focused on you. maybe try watching porn and masturbating together? and if you really want to break the habit of watching porn, maybe you should try some erotic literature, it really makes it easier to imagine your own scenarios.
Have your boyfriend use his hands to do the rubbing ect., just lay back and get off. I,m sure he would like this idea also. Have him finger you deeply to probe the inner vaginal walls and I believe you will get wet really quick. I do this with my girl, it,s the same as you giving him a hand job till he groans and spews all over.
I was very nervous at first, too....I didn't feel right for some reason, but after a while, I felt better...and I agree with everyone...masturbating together can be very hot and exciting...and touching each other while touching yourself can be fun, too.
