Masturbating in front of yr partner?

i'm curious how many people do this, how common/normal it is, and what people's thoughts are on this.

i don't mean in the sense that you do it for the other persons pleasure, like how some girls like to watch their men jack off. i mean just like, getting horny and just starting to jack off even if yr girlfriend is right there but for whatever reason may not want to have sex. for example i was at her place last night and we had sex twice. we were just lying in bed for a while after that, i was incredibly horny, but i knew she was exhausted and i didn't want to force her to have sex or give me head or anything. so i really just wanted to say to her 'hey i know yr tired, so is it ok with you if i just get myself off?' or something like that. but basically i was too scared because i wasnt sure if that was weird or if she'd freak out or whatever. so what are yr thoughts on this?

 

she would probably like you to jack off infront of her,maybe even cum on her,especially if she is tired and doesnt have to do any work.

 

Yep that's exactly what she wants. She wants you to jack off and cum on her.

 

Sometimes I cant cum from sex or oral, im just to excited and wanna fuck the pussy. pussy gets sore after an hour, so I give my Gf's a break.. if they ask me "did I cum" I tell them either its "ok, I came earlier dont think I will this time" or I clean up with them have em sit so I can jerk one out on their tits, ass, feet..
Toes usually works for me... they watch and are happy :whats the big deal?"..
Last time I came on my gf toes, I was so hard and pumped I shot cum 3ft across the room, which sucked cause I was aiming for the arch of the foot.. She was pretty excited to see it shoot that far. Not normal for me to shoot nuts, that far.

 

Hmm...no thanks...if she just wanted to watch and not help I aint interested

 

If it was my boyfriend in that situation, I'd be okay with it. As long as I could just sit back and enjoy the show, he can go right ahead!

 

Yes--it is a great turn on for me to be watched jerking off by someone else, or to watch another do it. Couples should masturbate for each other--it is a very intimate thing to do, and makes you closer.

 

i dunno it kinds of seems disrespectful but what do i know ?

 

yeh i've done it. would recommend it. I had fun and so did my lady

 

that is the best man one's u do your self in font of your gf or (bf) wich ever the case may be its like the ultimate ice beaker after that your ok to do any thing with no shame an you feel more comfortable about doing pretty much doing anything

 

I'm sure she appreciated that you were a true gentleman and weren't going to force her to suck or fuck you!!!

 

My husband and I do it fairly often for the same reasons. Why should he/I suffer bc the other one isn't feelin it?
I'll usually lend a hand

 

My girlfriend and I do it ALL THE TIME in front of each other. I quite enjoy it. So does she. When one of us finishes before the other, we will caress each others' bodies, so that it comforts the opposite person, and allows for a nice orgasm.

 

I'm a bit of a voyeur, so I enjoy watching the show. It's such a turn-on.

If your partner isn't already in the mood, it seems like that would be a way to change a mind!

 

Just the way I leave them

 

Me and my girlfriend do it all the time.

 

A girl once masturbated in front of me and it's one of the horniest things I've ever seen, perhaps more so because it was unexpected.

 

Ok so this was so great I just have to share--

My husband and I were sitting watching tv when all of a sudden he took his pants off and started rubbing his cock. Me, not wanting to be left out of the fun started to masturbate in front of him. This turned him on so much he moved in front of me so he could get a better look. We both sat their pleasuring ourselves until I cam and BEGGED him to fuck me. He obliged and almost immediately after he entered me we cam simultaneously...

Even though the sex part was short, we both had very, very intense orgasms. I had 2, one right after the other.

FUN FUN FUN!!!

So yes, masturbating in front of your partner is a lot of fun!

 

Yup, I think it's hot and would be totally OK with it. Of course, this is one of those things that will probably depend on your partner.

 

DW and I always masturbate together while watching porn. We both love watching each other. I believe that almost everybody does it.