Masturbating after Sex with Partner

Discussion in 'Masturbation' started by Lester Izmoore, Oct 7, 2019.

  1. Lester Izmoore

    Lester Izmoore Members

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    Last weekend, my GF spent the weekend at my house, sharing my bed both Friday and Saturday nights. Lots of really great cunnilingus and fucking and cuddling and snuggling during that time. She had to leave early Sunday morning to take care of various business at her own house. I was sad to see her drive off, but once she was gone, the first thing I did was to get naked again, relax in my bed, and pleasured myself to yet another delicious climax. Did that again Sunday night.

    And I’m 67 years old.

    I can recall as a teen reading some silly religious tract on how teens should behave sexually. Of course abstinence was its main theme. When it got to the topic of masturbation, well it certainly didn’t give it the Good Housekeeping Seal of Approval. But it did allow that it was understandable that a guy might masturbate after a date, and that’s ok, with the subtext being that he and his date dutifully abstained from anything that might have satisfied his hard cock. I can remember my thoughts after reading that at age 17. My thoughts were, after a date I always masturbate, whether I get laid or not. If not, I masturbated to relieve the obvious sexual tension. If I did get laid, the afterglow from the recent memory of having sex made me hard once more, and masturbating always seemed absolutely necessary.

    Indeed, throughout my life, if the partner-sex is good, it always seems to call out for masturbating soon after. Anybody else experience this?
     
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  2. anythingonce

    anythingonce You Can Trust Me

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    Except for a short period while still in high school, I’m a one and done guy.
     
  3. olderndirt

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    No, I don't masturbate after sex, but when we had sex a few nights ago, my wife did. She had a great orgasm during sex. After cuddling a bit after sex, she lay back, took my hand and placed it on her clit, and had me bring her to another orgasm as she just lay there and enjoyed it. That's not a usual occurrence, but it did happen.
     
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  4. starfield03

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    Doesn't resonate with me!
    Masturbation after having good sex would be like grabbing a Coors after having a really delicious draft beer.
     
  5. starfield03

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    To be a little more serious though... I find good sex very draining. Like mentally, emotionally, and sexually draining. I don't find it far fetched if I was in good steady relationship with regular sex that I might almost never masturbate.
     
  6. anythingonce

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    Hey, I like Coors!
     
  7. cass_jenner

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    I understand this totally and have done it a few times. I miss her when she goes and have got myself off to fond recent memories. I have told her about it as well, dont want to be furtive about these things.
     
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