Does your partner (say, in the mood for a "quickie," rather than a longer love session) like to be masturbated (your tongue, fingers, toy) or fucked?
One previous partner enjoyed a variety of quicky 'types'. Whenever I felt like it, I was to lift her skirt, if she wasn't nude, and slide inside her. Sometimes, when I was about to arrive at her place, I was texted with a message to enter the room and enter her, no words to be spoken. And then to leave for 30 mins after I'd cum. I wasn't to make her cum and if I could cum twice I had to. She loved the feeling that I was accosting her and using her for my own pleasure. (I actually didn't like that much because I prefer my girl to cum first). And when I would return after 30 mins, she had played so much alone that when she squatted over my face my mouth was filled, literally, with our juices. If we were already together the instruction /arrangement was that I fuck her when I felt like it. Anytime. Other times, eg if I were sitting on the settee, she'd throw her leg up so her foot rested on the back of the settee and she'd pull my head closer to her into her pussy. That was the 'instruction to give it to her and I would give her oral to several orgasms. Other times, she'd suck me until I was hard and then urgently, lower herself onto me, and ride me. Other GFs liked either to be fucked without any foreplay or they would bend over and tell me to do it or, they'd jump on me and ride me. No chat, no masturbation and no toys. God, how I miss those times, those girls.