Hi I'm sure this has been asked a million times but i wanted to hear peoples thoughts. I'm sure some will say just do it and others will say don't... I am married and i love my wife very much. I would really like to meet a man for sex. And I really quite like to have both a man and a women. It would be great to have another man play with me and the wife. She does not know I like cock nor do I think she would like to try anything like that. Which is fine, but I do. There is a guy who would like to do stuff with me. He really wants to suck my cock, which is great because the wife does not really enjoy doing it. And he wants to fuck me too which I would love, especially if he can make me cum without wanking. We could find a women to join us which would be purely for me and I would absolutely love it. But I'm married, the wife would obviously be unhappy and hurt if she knew. I really don't want to hurt her. I much prefer for her to experience it with me, I'm pretty sure she won't. If I say anything about this she will be suspicious, so maybe it's just best to keep quiet and do it with other people. I did speak to a women who has a fantasy of having two men and it's not something her husband would consider. Should we just do it and be really careful? It's hard to decide. Has anyone else had this problem? Thanks for reading
You don't THINK your wife would be into it. But you don't know. You might be surprised. Before you go behind her back, try to include her!
On that note, I have a question for you. My husband and my sex has always been very exciting and satisfying. He has never been with a guy, but it came to my attention recently that MOST of the porn he watches is MMF stuff. Do you think that definitely means he wants to do that? The only time I asked him about it, he said he doesn't want guys but he didn't really want to talk about it. I'm not sure how I would feel about having another person, male or female, join us. I do wish he would be more open though. I feel like there might be other fun things we've never done that we could try if he could tell me what he likes about that kind of porn. How can I get him to talk?
Re: MMF porn, he may be into the "fantasy" while watching porn &/or masturbating. He could have dismissed your talk because he thought you would have judged him differently. Re: Fun things to try, perhaps watching porn of the things that you are interested in trying, may start the conversation. I hope this helps. I'd like to know what comes of your quest. Take care.
Well, you can have a discreet affair. It's easy enough thanks to the internet. There are a variety of website where you can hang out and hook up with people. I haven't tried that yet. I feel like I've made my choice - I'm married and have two kids so I will try to make it work. I had my chance and had a nice gay affair before I met my now wife. But it was a close call for me which way to go - gay or straight. I just really wanted children and love mine so very much. But I still have a lot of gay fantasies. Would love to suck a cock again. As for doing the MMF style - I've seen that on porn sites before. Interesting thought. Not sure. Usually my thoughts are just one way or the other - I either want to get some pussy or I want to get some cock. But hell I'm open to both at the same time just to be different! You know your wife best - she sounds like mine, too conservative and traditional and not very open minded. If I said anything about doing something like that in a serious tone, she'd probably file for divorce thinking I'd gone off my rocker. No way could she handle such a request. I would never broach it. I never told her about having a gay side either. She has no idea that I had a gay affair before I met her. If I told her she'd probably leave me. She's just waaaay too sexually conservative for that. She has said to me a few times that she thinks I might be gay. I just tell her I only want her.
if you are afraid to just ask your wife, try to find a way to open a conversation on the topic in genneral, then steer the conversation to the point, where you can ask it as a "hypothetical" question. and of cause there are also other ways of finding out
This is interesting. I disclosed to my wife that I recently got fucked in the ass. We were fucking when I told her. Though she wasn't for it verbally, her pussy got very wet and her orgasm was wild. She hasn't spoken about it. Does it mean she got turned on?
