Married, no sex at home?When did you change your attitude about trying Bi

Did you venture into bi fun because you had no sex life at home and were just looking for a little relief from a No Strings BJ? It seems like a easy and safe way to satisfy carnal needs.

 

Yes, I was 61 and sex for my wife after menopause was painful for her. I haven't done much the past few years, but I do enjoy cumming in a guys mouth or ass. I have found one retired guy like me, but neither of us has much time to get away and play, so we only get together once or twice a year. He is a sissy bottom, he was a virgin when we met and we have only been together twice so far.

 

Kind of, I took a guy up on his offer for a blow job as I'd turned down many as I was hit on a lot in my 20's. What a BJ it was, he sucked out a load in 4 minutes and that never happened. Getting sucked progressed into me sucking cock which I enjoyed a lot. I've never fucked or been fucked by a man but enjoyed a lot of mutual oral.

 

I had a friend years ago, bj's only although he wanted to fuck me. That's what led to our ending it at 23.
Now 60 and wife has pain issue and all that and won't use any type of hormone replacement. I feel another woman on the side would get complicated and the m2m seems more NSA. So a couple of months ago I was contacted by a guy from out of town but in a town I travel to often. Finally he came to my hotel and it happened, first time in over 30 years. Only problem was he wanted kissing, I'm not into that much. I mean if they are attractive and he was maybe just a little. The other issue was my desire for the guy to have a noticeably larger penis than me which isn't difficult. The guy was smaller, I enjoyed blowing him and him me but I didn't get hard while I sucked his dick. His dick didn't excite me, I hate to admit it but I'm a dominate guy, 6'4" 225 former athlete. I think I'll only enjoy a more slight guy almost fem with a big dick. I enjoy the submissive feeling it gives me when their dick is noticeably larger than mine. I guess I'm a strange guy.
Ready thought to find another skinny guy with a big dick.

 

I fought the urge for years. But then I posted on a gay and Bi dating site, first out of curiosity but met someone who seem to connect both in a sexy and natural way. It was something I'd missed for so long. Our first lovemaking session convinced me that I'm bisexual. I look forward to our steamy interludes.

 

i'm a little confused about the point of switching to guys in this situation? do you consider it not cheating, or not cheating as much, if it's a man instead of another woman? or is it just because it's easier to get NSA sex from a random man than a random woman? or something else i'm not seeing?

 

I admit that it' cheating. Just different mind set. Hard to explain unless you are in our situation.

 

I am amused you expect to get the truth from them

 

It means if you can justify cheating...than go for it!!!

Seriously...

I'm sick of seeing these threads that all like, "I love my wife, but I have to fuck men behind her back." These poor women...

 

i have no expectations, but you get nowhere if you don't at least ask.

 

You've pretty much got it, at least for me. I'd been hit on numerous times by other men but never took them up as I'd been raised it was wrong. I'd always been fascinated with my own cock, wanting to suck it but not able to. Finally I gave in and allowed a guy to suck me off. I knew it was wrong being married, but did not consider getting a BJ as cheating, or as much had it been with a woman. After having been orally satisfied by several men I too wanted to suck. I found it easier to locate other men (married) for mutual oral than to locate another woman for sex. I'm not justifying cheating on my wife (at the time) by any means but the thrill and excitement of mutually sucking was filling the void. My present wife knows I enjoy sucking cock, has witnessed me doing so, and has also joined in on the fun with a few mmf evenings. I'm finally free and open with my present wife and actually feel liberated.

 

Do you think any of these guys would have a clue if the wife had something secret on the side the whole time?

And I'm not just talking about anything sexual

 

They Do Tend To Wear A "Bit Thin" After The First 500......



Cheers Glen.

 

I started because the wife thought it was hot. She likes women and I enjoy watching that , so fair is fair. We have a rule, no married men cheating on their wives.