Married men in bi/gay relationships

Any Married men in Bi/gay relationships ?
With a wife support I do have active group of hunks, I have mm encounters with but …there are few that are more of mm relationship…

 

I'm not sure if this is what you are asking but, I have been in a couple of relationships with other married men during my years of business travel.

One of them traveled to a corporate office for his company that was in the same area of as project that I was on. We actually stayed in the same hotel, and were able to have dinner dates at night then go back to one of our rooms for sex, cuddling, and sleeping together for the night. My take on him was that he was really gay, and the marriage was a front for him. He had separated from his wife for four years and lived with a man. They got back together for the sake of their kids. It was a nice affair that lasted a few months until my project finished and I moved on. That is the nature of what my work was like.

Another relationship that I had with another married man was in the Bay Area on a project that I was on there. We met on Grindr, he came to my hotel room one night with treats for me, and we had an incredibly hot fuck. He was a nurse. First he massaged my prostate and sucked me off. So, now I have a limp dick. He lubes his cock, and proceeds to start fucking me bareback until he cums in my ass. That was the start of an affair that lasted a few months. He claimed to have no prior gay sex experience, but wow, he knew how to fuck a man. I fell in love with him big time, and we talked about what might have happened if we met under different circumstances. We lived on opposite sides of the country, and we were both married. I loved getting naked with him and the only thing we were both wearing was our wedding rings. We had the hottest gay sex imaginable and honestly I could marry him and live with him as his girl. Once again, it ended when I finished my project.

We stay in touch, and managed to meet for coffee when I was out in the area again for pleasure.

 

It always saddens me to hear a story like yours, @spankablebob, a couple of married guys finding each other, having the most beautiful sexual relationship, even falling in love, and circumstances preventing them from being together, not least of which was their marriages to women. You find such a compatible partner with someone of your own sex, which makes such total sense, and you can't be together permanently. I understand it. But it just makes me sad, especially because that's exactly what I'm looking for in another man, and I'm not already married to a woman.

After craving men and wanting to get back to having sex with them throughout my last long-term relationship with a woman, when that ended I realized I could never again have a long-term relationship with a woman because it is just impossible for me to go without sex with men. And I never wanted to risk finding myself in exactly the situation that you did, being with the man of my dreams and having a girlfriend or wife preventing our being together permanently. In fact, I would love to find a guy right now to have just the kind of relationship you had, and be able to stay together as a gay couple.

 

RisingBi

Well, my first gay lover, that I have mentioned in other posts, started pursuing me when I was about twenty years old. I wish i had succumbed to his advances then, so I would have had more experience with men. At the time I had no interest in men sexually. Plus, I was surrounded by homophobia: friends, family, and my college track team. This was in the early 70's, still not exactly an enlightened or gay friendly time.

When I succumbed to his continued overtures towards me ten years later, It soon became a passionate relationship that went well beyond friendship. I'll go into how all that transpired in a post here eventually. I then started dating my wife, and did some reading on polyamory as my feelings for both of them grew deeper. She met him, they hit it off pretty well, and knowing he was gay, inquired about our relationship. I denied anything.

While in bed one night in the afterglow state my gay friend brought up the possibility of a threesome for us all. He said, "You and I have to get it on together."

"Why" I asked.

"Because she knows" was his response. Admittedly, he had also made subtle references to me in conversations with her that he would only know if he and I were intimate.

Eventually, my wife and I got married. I intended to maintain the relationship with my friend indefinitely. Things became more difficult, however, with my gay friend then. Pluse, he moved in with anither man.

I really wished that there was a way that the three of us could have continued as a "throuple" as they say know. She isn't into group sex at all. However, she was a size queen when we met, and she would have definitely enjoyed his huge cock inside her. I would have loved to have been able to watch her ride it.

A year into the marriage my friend passed away suddenly. I was devastated, as I had lost a close friend and lover. The romantic relationship had lasted six years.

It was several years before I was able to pursue anything with a man again. Business travel gave me that opportunity.

 

I am married to a woman but have a regular fuck buddy I have been seeing for a year now. She knows I am always hanging out with him but pretty sure she doesnt know we fuck/suck daily