Married men cheating with men

How many men who are married to a woman have cheated with a man for gay sex?

I believe it's much more common than people think. I'm only attracted to women physically and emotionally. But I still enjoy the act of gay sex which isnt possible with my wife. She doesn't know I've done it.

 

I agree that it takes place more often than women realize. For many years during my first marriage, I was discretely mutually sucking cock with other sexually frustrated married men. Our wives (in our opinions) were neglecting us and considered ourselves lucky to have met each other in order to satisfy each other. Our wives would have considered it cheating but we didn't see it that way. We saw it as a way to fill the void in our lives. We connect, we get naked, and we suck each other off and go on with our lives.

 

I’m married and I have had sex with 25-30 guys. Mostly other married guys but also with a few gay guys. Mainly oral sex but I’m looking to try getting fucked.

 

I haven't.....YET

 

There are a lot of us. And as we get older the number goes up. Menopause is a killer of sex lives. Many men aren’t wanting to give it up and having an affair with a woman is riddled with land mines.

 

Women come with too much baggage. I found it was so much easier to hook up with other guys, suck each other off, and go on with our lives. Most of my many hook-ups with other married men resulted in us hooking up many, many more times. It can be completed in as little as 30 minutes for the two of you or make it last over an hour if time permits.

 

When I was married I got seduced by a guy. I loved sex with men after that. At first I didn’t consider it cheating until she got suspicions of my activities. She thought I was meeting other women. I learned that day that it didn’t matter. Man or woman I was engaging in sex with another person and the wife wouldn’t approve. I grew apart from her and I attribute that to my need for sex with men. We divorced and now I can freely enjoy my sexual activities as I choose.

 

Yea, I've met up with a few men over the last 10 years for mutual oral. She would not approve.
Typical hookup is not usually more than 15-20 minutes.
I mostly just enjoy giving oral, but most guys want mutual.
I've come close to hooking up with couples a few times, where the woman wanted to watch her man and me, never worked out though.

 

During my first marriage I too was seduced, but for me it was his sexy cock that seduced me. I wanted to suck on it all the time and couldn't get it out of my mind. As my wife and I grew apart I was growing closer to his cock.

 

I did and honestly now looking back regret so
Many things.
I realized just how much of a terrible man I was. I was hooking up with strangers I had just met. men are pigs I was one of them. I took the easy route to get off. Men were like fish in a barrel. No one ever said no.
I’m ashamed of it every day of my life yet I still think about it. I made a promise to myself to not do it again. 3 years later I’m still good .

 

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How do you get off now? If it wasn’t meeting up with other guys, I’d never get off except by jerking off.

 

Porn but honestly I quit that for a while too. Now when I watch porn it’s been back to straight porn. And beautiful women. I’d like to think the guy sex is out of me but my mind does still wonder there. I just don’t want to be that guy again.

 

You are a better man than me. I think about guy sex all the time. But I go back and forth between gay porn and straight porn. I love pussy and still think about having my cock in one again but I do t think that will happen. More likely I’ll be sucking more cock.

 

Yep I've cheated for gay sex, straight sex and trans sex. Sex is sex and love is love as far as I am concerned.

 

I did, just a few times I met men on holiday here in their hotel room. And I will surely do it again when I get the chance.

 

I think it is a lifelong desire. Try not to be too hard on yourself if you fail.

 

In my first marriage I did cheat with other men. And in the process I met other men who were married who just needed a quick release without strings attached, no complications, no flowers or dinner first. That was me. I was cheating because I missed sucking cock, not because I had a bad sex life with my wife. She was fun in bed and gave great head but I just need to have sex with men at every stage of my life.
Lots of the men I met were just looking to unload and enjoyed a great blowjob. I can't keep count of how many guys, married or not, who said I gave them the best blowjob they'd ever had. Some wives don't enjoy it or just don't do a good job.
I know not everyone will agree but I think of men just going out for a blowjob is a lower degree of cheating. There's no love, no risk of pregnancy, limited risk of disease, just a blow and go to help relieve stress that's better not brought home. Of course, if your wife loves giving you head and loves your cum any way she can get it then maybe it's worse but if you have a wife like that the odds are against you looking for a guy to suck you off.
So my experience is that there are a lot of married men cheating with other men but not in a way that's going to ruin a marriage unless they get caught and labelled a fairy. BTW, you're not a fag or gay or a fairy or a sissy just for having a mouth on your dick. Me, the guy with your dick in his mouth, yeah, I'm the sissy faggot for that moment. And feel free to say so. ;-)

 

I guess that I'm fortunate enough to be married to an understanding woman. She knows that I have sex with another guy and is fine with it. In some ways she encourages me. Now if I was to have sex with another woman, I'd best move out of state for my health cause she would beat the shit out of me.

 

I'm one of those men - I meet guys every now and then without my wife's knowledge. It's not something I'm proud of and I try every so often to stop but it's a part of me that I can't deny forever. At the same time I'm not interested in coming out as gay, I don't want a relationship with a man, I love my wife but sexually she doesn't satisfy me (compounded by the fact that she's largely lost interest in sex). I've many times thought about coming out to her but to scared she would leave me. I would never cheat on her with a woman though.

 

I'm mostly the same except my wife does do it for me. She has just also largely lost interest due to health and mental health issues.