My husband and I have been married 4 months, together for 4 years. For awhile now our sex life sucks. Its only once a week and when he wants it. I try and start things a couple time a week and I always get told no. But when he tries to get some he always gets this. Is there something wrong with me? Why won't he try more than once a week?
well, you decided to marry a guy that doesn't want to have sex. that's probably more of an error in judgment than something wrong with you though.
Try fucking the same tired old woman for 4 years, and then tell me how much of a cyclone in bed you are. :biggrin:
yes, i suppose poor decision making could count as "something wrong." i'll let you know after i try it.
Try dressing sexy.....short skirt, thigh hi's ...no man can turn that down. Are you Bi at all/...maybe bring home a friend for him to watch.
talk to him about it - otherwise the omens are not good after 4 months. Tell him you feel frustrated. Good luck, Simon
No we don't have children. No I'm not bi, plus he and I aren't comfortable with bringing someone else in. I don't think I made a poor choice marrying him. Marriage isn't all about sex. All he has told me for excuses is that he is tired, doesn't feel like it. Or he will promise later and then pull a "I'm tired." Lately he has been more affectionate just random teasing and nothing else. Which is great but knowing him it will be a couple days before he will say yes.
