What do you all except out of your future (or current) husband or wife? As a woman, do you feel obligated to cook dinner and do chores around the house? Do you expect your husband to do more of the physical tasks such as taking out the trash, building and fixing things? Men, do you expect your wife to organize the home, wake up for the crying babies in the night, exchange her career for motherhood? Would you feel like less of a woman/man if you weren't in charge or certain tasks? Would men, for example, feel emasculated as a stay at home father? Would ladies feel wrong working while their husband remained unemployed in the home? Or are your roles less traditional? Do you split everything down the middle? Do you feel traditional gender responsibilities are antiqued or do you believe they still hold value? Basically, I'm curious...how would you, ideally, like to see your husband/wife behave in their role as husband or wife? Or, if already married, how DO you behave?