I am looking for some help. I've been with my girlfriend for 2 years and she can't make me come from a blow job or a hand job even though she gets my right there close to cumming. We have tried lube and I have cut back on masturvating with no luck. Does anyone have any ideas? Thank you
I would first stop thinking about it. If/when you perceive it as a problem, you make it worse because it's a form of stress. Instead, you just sit back and enjoy what actually feels good. That's a good step to take, I think.