Male Anorgasmia

I'm not sure if I have it per se but my orgasms are really wimpy compared to what they were when I first entered puberty. Not sure if that's normal. I actually get a lot more pleasure when my partner sucks on my nipples or something like that.

What exactly is anorgasmia? Does there need to be a lack of "final vibrations" in the genitals? (I'm not sure how else to put it.) I mean, I get that, they just...don't feel that exciting. And I ejaculate and all, which is associated (inextricably, it would seem by the sounds of the literature I've read) with orgasm in males. But it doesn't have that powerful feeling that orgasm is supposed to...

 

i don't know anything about anorgasmia, but i'm pretty sure nobody's orgasms are near what they were when they first started having orgasms.

it's kind of like doing drugs; it's always going to be fun, but it will never compare to the first time.

 

I dunno guys, my orgasms bring me immense pleasure almost every time.

 

anorgasmia has nothing to do with the strength of the orgasm. Anorgasmia means inability or extreme difficulty in achieving orgasm.

I suffered from it once which I found out later was due to some medications I was on. while I was suffering I could get hard but not orgasm from sex but only from masturbating for 30 minutes or longer. it was horrible. Thankfully that has resolved since I went off that med.

If that is what you are suffering from see your doctor. if you are on any anti-depressants or taking meds for high blood pressure or anxiety or many other drugs that could be the cause.

 

I can't relate to not having a powerful feeling when ejaculating. But I have been unable to orgasm in a few instances, especially when I was younger. Just kept fucking and no cigar.

Me fuck you laaang tiem.

 

so do mine. just not as much as the first few times. it's not like they either bring immense pleasure or immense pain and there's nothing in between; it's a spectrum of pleasure.

 

For sure. It's to the point where it isn't even very much fun orgasming anymore though, at least most of the time. (Or perhaps that is normal too? It would be depressing, but I could see it.) Sometimes I'll get a decent amount of pleasure from it, but very, very rarely.

Thanks for the clarification; I don't think that's what I'm suffering from then. I go through the muscle contractions, but don't really feel much pleasure. Perhaps a chemical imbalance is more likely? I used to have very strong anxiety and depression, and still suffer from both of them.