ladies i am a male and the way we are turned on is mostly visual.we check out a woman's bust,pelvis,legs,behind and that pretty much sends a rush of blood to yu know where. i mean to say it takes about half a minute for a young virile male to get aroused.is it the same for women? the mere sight of a bra-strap,panty lines,cleavage,legs/thighs in pantyhose/stockings any of these are enough to get an erection.the woman who brings it on is of course oblivious to it!does this happen to women? if not HOW DO women feel the first stirrings of arousal?throw some light ladies?
LOL Justin. Let me add to splitpersonality's list of turn-ons for men ... yes we are quite visual, HOWEVER, all senses come into play. The scent of a woman's skin, the sound of her voice, even possibly pheremones. There is so much sensory input that adds up to attraction that I don't know how you can possibly pare it down to just 1 or 2 things.
A woman sneezing. The femine "ka-choo" used to give me a boner. No idea why. And women that don't know how to shave. I love teaching them!
Frankly, I like smarts as much as looks. Of course, the biggest thing I like is a woman who I can tell really admires and trusts me. But the thing that makes me fall in love a little just looking at her is that spiritual awareness and intelligence, the twinkle in her eye that tells me she's on the level, where I just know immediately that I can relate to her. As for looks, I want a girl I can totally throw around in bed however I want, under 175lbs or so. I need a lot of T&A if she's heavy for her height, not so into big bellies on girls. As a big and tall man myself I slightly prefer skinny petite girls (I used to be fat, still got enough squish for both of us). And a pretty face. Balance, you know. Love the size difference when fucking a girl who's barely over 5' tall and petite, being a foot and a half taller and almost three times her weight. That's hot. Also like tall skinny girls, and giant amazon women I have to wrestle for dominance, and totally average looking girls. And girls with big juicy asses. Or little round bellies. Or big squishy titties I can bury my face in. Actually, I'm pretty much a slut, I'm happy as a pig in shit fucking most any girl who's smart and good looking, no matter the type, so long as she's properly into it. As for more specific turnons, I love sluts, creampies, and submissives, mainly. Fantasize about making my girls turn tricks for me, be total fucking whores that do whatever the fuck I say, fuck groups of strangers bareback, just a total power exchange trip-- physical, mental, spiritual, using hypnotic training to make her my slave. That shit's just plain hot, no two ways around it. Don't go that route with even half my girls-- I tailor shit to what they're comfortable with. Still, it's creampies with every girl I'm with, almost without fail. Fantasy's usually good enough for my desire for sluts, and most girls are actually a bit submissive anyway, but there's just no getting around bareback fucking for me. Is what it is.
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