I was watching the movie 'Alfie' recently, & I heard an interesting line in the opening scene: "make a married woman laugh, and you're half way there. But make a single bird laugh.. and that's all you'll get!" I'm not sure if I fully understand the meaning behind this as it can often be a good thing if you can make a girl laugh. It reminded me of a time when I was talking to a hot bird and made the mistake of expressing to her why a particular issue annoyed me. I let my guard down and showed that I cared too much about this. She found it amusing and laughed a little too much. Although I didn't realise it at the time, I somehow knew I wasn't going to get into her pants. So I ask you, what exactly is the thinking behind this line??
I don't know about that, but I do know that getting too "annoyed" with something (be honest ... is that a code word for "angry"?) is a red flag to most women. It depends on what it was, of course, but men who blow up disproportionately at things are a bad, bad risk. I'm not saying that's you, but I think it's the most important point you brought up in your post, not the laughing thing.
What it was, was the fact that the bar tender was okay with a cat on the counter-top. And THAT annoyed me
I think the biggest question here is why was there a cat in a bar? As a human being, I love to laugh. I'm naturally a really happy person and find reasons to laugh a lot. As a married woman, I don't think having a man make me laugh gets him halfway there with me. Maybe if I was in a miserable marriage but many men make me laugh and I don't spread my legs for them. I would be the talk of the town if I gave it up to everyone who makes me laugh. I don't agree with their theory.
I'm sure you get the logic of it though. You'd be surprised how many women out there are sexually starved AND bitter towards their husbands. They mightn't even know that it's what they're craving until some charming man from outa town comes along
That's why i says maybe if they are in a miserable marriage. I could see it then. Honestly everybody loves it when someone pays attention to them no matter what kind of marriage they are in. I can appreciate that part of it. You feel flattered that someone is into you a little but that doesn't mean that they are going to be in you later. I'm just saying that as a married woman, making me laugh isn't an instant panty dropper.
i don't know, i've seen dogs in bars several times. the bar i sometimes go to around here has a very sickly dog that hangs out in it. the front half of her looks normal, but the back half is all scabby and balding. what's really disturbing is when you're waiting for some wings and you see her walk out of the kitchen.
I'm a married woman and I have sex outside of my marriage. My husband, too. We're in an open marriage, so, we're OK with that. But a man making me laugh doesn't mean he's half way to my pussy. Lots of men make me laugh. Women, too. I laugh easily, anyway. We're always laughing in my home, myself and my husband, because we have a very acute sense of humor. What gets a man in my pussy isn't his sense of humor. It is about physical attraction and being at the right place at the right time. I eat first with my eyes. I'm visual, just like men. If I don't particularly like the guy's looks, he'll perhaps get to give me oral, play with my feet, but the probability he'll get to do more than that is very small.
other than the dying dog it's by far the nicest bar around here. plus it has the best wings in town, and prices from the 1970s.
