Loyalty... or lack of !

A friend of mine went to London to take a course in English. Se will spend a total of 45 days there, within two weeks he has e-mails us saying he has had sex with 3 girls all of them also in London to take this course, all three of them have boyfriends one of which my friend even met a couple of days ago.
I think its disgusting how these girls have the nerve to screw around then be able to look "inocently" at there boyfriends like nothing has happened.
It really getts to me knowing such people exist !!

What do you think ??

 

I also frown on how my friend is acting, althought h is just taking advantage of the situation to get what he wants.

 

people suck...

 

Free love man!

 

Notice in my first post, I did not mention these girls admited what thew have done... meaning they know what they are doing is wrong...
Do as you wish, in my opinion at least break up with your partner if your not able to keep you panties on till you get back home !!!

 

Ha!



Seriously though... it seems like both parties are into it. Let your friend do what he wants, it's not like you know the girls or truly care about their relationships with their husbands. Those people are in England, for all you know they could be a figment of your imagination.

 

It´s not that simple to me, I feel very sorry for the boyfriends who probably trust these girls and knowing it could have been me.
I always put myself in other peoples positions to be able to create an opinion.

 

It does suck what they are doing. Its like noone really cares about other people's feelings anymore.
The world sucks. And if I had any courage I' d put a stop to it.

 

...and that's a very nice thing to do.

But, there's a limit. Think of it as a different culture or something.

Plus, those girls are probably going to cheat on their boyfriends with someone else if your friend wasn't there.

I don't really know why I'm defending your friend, I dislike the type myself. It just seems like this isn't something worth having an argument over, plus... honestly... do you really think that you have any say in his sex life?

 

As I said...people suck.
Ur friend suck and those girls suck.

 

Im actually only using his "episode" as an example but im debating everybody that does this.
I give myself the right to have an opinion on any topic.. and my opinion about cheating is totaly negative.

 

Yeah, sure... you can have an opinion.

But, honestly... is it any of your business? Is it your sex life?

I sense a hint of homoerotic jelousy

 

People do whatever they fancy... I would just like to see people respect one another.

 

Why is it that the girls are the disgusting ones? Your friend is doing the same thing they're doing. Sexism is what's disgusting. If you think that the girls are horrible for not being faithful to their boyfriends, then why aren't you concerned that your friend is willing to mess around with three different girls who all have boyfriends?

 

I dont think you read my second post so you jumped to a conclusion and incrrectly imposed that im a sexist...

This is my second post.

"I also frown on how my friend is acting, althought h is just taking advantage of the situation to get what he wants."

 

Sorry for inavading this thread, but, I'm really nervous!


Look I don't know if I am being stupid but a few nights ago my friend and I ended up fooling around together in bed. I feel weird saying this but I can't ask anyone else well.
I was touching him and he came and it got on my top a bit and my hand and he was also touching me at the same time. We were lting side by side in bed at the time. We pretty much had all our clothes on like too, but, I'm just really afraid that some of it could have gotten into me. He went to the loo after for a tissue, but, then I slept in the bed too. I'm just really nervous like. We were both a bit drunk too, so weren't thinking the most carefuly!
I'm just really worried, what so you think the chances are that I could be pregnant? Its 2 weeks since I last had my period too, does this mean that my cycle is good for getting pregnant?
I have a pain in my tummy too, but, I dont know if this is from worry or what
Please God I hope I'm not! I can't concentrate on anything after being so silly!
Thanks for help

 

True respect is the product of class. If people act without respect nothing related to your perceptions or expectations of them will change their behavior. Perhaps you need to be more selective in choosing whom to hang out with or let go of your expectations of others.

 

In any event... my friend is just "the other one" in this whole situation... Yes he (does not have a girl friend) is definitely contributng in the cheating, but the girls who do have botfriends are in my opinion comiting more of a mistake than him.

 

If they're both okay with it, it's cool... if not, they suck ha :]