I'm in love with this girl. Like, very seriously in love with her. For 4 years now, we've been best friends, and always she's known that I love her as much more then a friend. She's had a boyfriend for the last 2 years. I've been telling myself to give up on her, but I can't... she's the only person or thing in the world that is this important to me. I would quit smoking pot for the rest of my life just to hear her say she loves me, but I know she doesn't love me, she never will. I can't stand this... it's making me crazy.
I'm a strange person, pansy.... I'll admit that... but as of I'm still not over her, I think it was for real, regardless of my age.
henry try finding another girl to hang out with thats single and date her, i know that you love this girl, but if nothing will ever come of it, than leave early before it gets to hard. Just ignore her and forget her phone calls and hang out with another crowd. and i do believe you fell in love so young, most people do
Take a little advice from someone a little older (I'm 34). From the 4th grade all the way thru high school and beyond my best friend in the world was this girl. We were inseperable, like brother and sister, we knew everything about each other and are totally the same. We tried dating once when we were in 7th grade, but it didn't work because we were too good of friends. Like I said we stayed friends all those years and without going into too much detail about all those years just suffice it to say that I have allways loved her and she me just because we were always there for each other. Well after high school and college we drifted apart. Every once in awhile I would have dreams about her. I could never remember what exactly I'd dream, but I knew that she was in the dream and that it was all good and I would always awake feeling totally refreshed and with a smile on my face the whole day. Like I said though, we drifted apart and havent seen each other for 12 years. Well thanks to another friend for turning my on to myspace.com I found her again. I emailed her right away and she responded right away with her phone number too. I called her this past Fri and we spent Fri nite all the way thru to Sunday afternoon together. We talked forever about old times and such. I thought that she was checking me out now and then, but I was still a little neverous about it because you know it's been 12 years and we were such good friends. Finally it happend, we kissed and kept kissing. I have been with my fair share of women over the years, but this last weekend with her was such a beautiful, spiritual experiance for both of us that I still can't believe what has happend. The friendship was still all there, it was like we have never been apart, but we have started to take it to the next level that I wanted it too take when I was younger. I am still in shock, happiness, fear and awe as to what has happened. I have always wanted something this deep to happen with a woman, but all of my other relationships have never givin me what I really wanted. Now that this has happened I am having a hard time believing that it is real. I can feel all of those things happening with us, but I guess because I have never had exactly what I wanted it is fuckin with my head, lol. Anyways, my point is never give up hope. You might have to store it in the back of your head for awhile, but never give up. "A love for real will not fade away" is how the song goes, and true love is when the same soul inhabitts two bodies. Just had to throw them in there cause its how I am feeling right now. Can't wait until this weekend to see her again!! Just be there for her, be a true friend, and if you really do love her a close supper friendship will do you good, at least she will always be in your life this way. Then who knows, after some years go by what is happening to me now might happen to you and you will be left speachless. Peace and Love
Sometimes we like what we can't have, this is a good example of it. I'm sure u're just mixing up ur feelings since she's ur best friend maybe you dont see clearly that ur love for her is special, u're still very young and u have a whole life ahead of you, you'll meet plenty of girls, no need to be frustrated over this one. See it from the bright side, she's by ur side and she cares for you, maybe someday she will look at you differently, who knows, but for now try to translate that "love" u feel as friendship and be the best friend she could ever have, that's even more important than being her "boyfriend" specially at this age.
All I can say dude is listen to what sister had to say here. Trust me when you forget about the romance as I did with my soulmate years ago and translate your love toward the friendship it will grow to be very beautifull. If you are lucky maybe when you get older you will be blessed like I have been and she will look at you differently and it will really be beautifull, to damn awesome to put into words is how I have been feeling.
this was my story once, i mean not exactly but basically. what happened with my was that i decided that id move on and seriously no matter how much it hurt, try to just forget that i liked him so much. i decided to turn those little quirks of theirs that i loved into little annoyances that just bothered me. after that, feelings were gone. BUT... soon after he 'realized' he loved me the whole time. needless to say, that just pissed me off that i had gone through basic hell to rid myself of feelings i should just 'snap' back into place? i guess my point is, listen to your heart. your a dedicated person, and you deserve someone who will be dedicated back. is she really the one?
