Love for catfight, a sexual deviancy???

Discussion in 'Men's Issues' started by catfightlover123, Apr 20, 2011.

  1. catfightlover123

    catfightlover123 Guest

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    I am 23 year old male having a great passion for catfight since i was 15 years old...2 sexy women fighting always turns me on..I view catfight videos daily..I cant virtually live without them...I even masturbate simply visualising catfight/sexfight b/w two hot ladies..I am not gay and i actually turn on seeing hot girls..My sexual pleasure arouse faster on seeing a catfight video than seeing porn movie(seeing porn movie also arouse my sexual pleasure)..

    Is this a sexual deviancy...I have seen in many places that catfight lovers are sadist...And one thing i want to clarify is that i am not a sadist.... I tried hard to avoid seeing catfight videos...But i simply cant do it...Is there any method to stop it...And will this affect a future family life??It is almost impossible to hide this personal matter from your life partner..She will one day find it out...I have not said this even to my best friends..Can anyone please help me?????
     
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  2. Fingermouse

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    Hi,

    This is not a really common fetish, but it's not shocking either. The extent to which this turns you on means that it definitely is a fetish, but it sounds like a harmless one. It's too difficult to tell you the origins of this desire without knowing more about you, but I can give my opinion on your concerns for the future. Really, I think it's going to be fine. When you find the right partner, you'll be able to tell them that this turns you on, and they should understand or at least want to. Who knows, maybe one day you'll even meet a girl who's into a bit of rough play.

    I think you shouldn't rule out the possibility of this having a sadistic element to it. That doesn't always automatically mean "bad", this is just fantasy afterall. But when it comes down to it, you are watching violence, even if it is light.

    I'd stop worrying too much and do some more research, and just begin to accept that this is a large part of your sexuality for whatever reason. People have some seriously disturbing tastes. From what you describe, yours isn't one of them.

    Feeling you wouldn't be able to live without these videos raises the possiblity of an entirely different issue though...
     
  3. catfightlover123

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    Thanks for the response. I can shed some light on the origins of my catfight love. Since i was a little kid about 10yrs or so seeing heated argument b/w ladies always created some sort of nice feeling in me which i didnt understand. When i got to 13 years adolescence set in and most of my friends started to look towards women with great passion. Same was with me. They started to seek out even glamorous teachers in school. Me too was not different. But my secret interest was diff. I used to compare two teachers and visualise catfight b/w them..This was the starting. Then all through the years i was a catfight fan. I use to spend hours before TV watching soaps in scope of seeing a catfight in it even though i hate soaps the most. I love sexfight and catfights. But i hate seeing rough fighting involving blood. I hate one girl mercilessly beating or kicking another. I desire to see catfight only if both are willing to go at it. I will never dare to separate two ladies having a catfight/sexfight if both are willing to settle the matter. If one is mercilessly beating another i will surely intervene.So am i a sadist? I watch catfight for my sexual pleasure, not for the pleasure of seeing pain in two women's eyes.
     
  4. Xlear

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    First time I've heard of this as a turn on...to each their own.
     
  5. McFuddy

    McFuddy Visitor

    With this particular fetish it is most common for it to start an early age before sexualization. It is actually quite natural - sex is violence and penetration. So a 10 year old witnessing two attractive females doing as you say and feeling something before the person knows much or anything about sex the fighting sort of becomes a substitute. Once adolescence begins the person may masturbate fantasizing about it and so the fetish becomes ingrained sexual behavior.

    Try not to beat your self up about it (subtle pun).
     
  6. rashoo2

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    Hi Catfightlover, I have exactly the same passion as you mentioned, I had been surfing the net to find if anyone else get same feeling after watching two female fighting.. I am 32 year old married but can't explain how much erraction or satisfaction I feel after watching two female having fight catfight/sexfight.. I always imagine girls in sex/catfight where one girl with bigger tits and muscles (but smaller in age) dominate a thing elder girl.. Although am married but still I enjoy more in mastrubating while watching a girl fight than having sex w my wife... I don't know if this is some sort of disorder or what but I can't stop myself from dreaming of it
     
  7. meridianwest

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    i find it weird how you felt any kind of need to wiggle the 'i'm not gay' into this.

    :confused:
     
  8. Aerianne

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    I read the title as "Love for Catfish..." lol
     
  9. Delta 9 The Psychonaut

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    Freud once stated: "The only unnatural sexual behavior is none at all." Same guy who theorized children form an erotic attachment to the parent of the opposite sex and that girls wish they had a penis though. Everything with a grain of salt I guess.
     
  10. Doctor Green

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    Hello. I am turning 40 next month, and I have had a fetish for seeing female combat since I was about 11 years old. (That's nearly 3 decades, in case you're not good at math!)

    Unlike some folks, I can pretty much pinpoint the exact moment when my fetish began. I was on the bus to school one morning when a violent brawl took place between two high school cheerleaders. The girls were in fact in their uniforms as it was Spirit Day (meaning there was a Friday night football game later that night,) and this fact also contributed to the panty fetish I still have to this day. This feeling was amplified several times not much later when I came across the movie All the Marbles on tv late at night (it's about female wrestling) and not too long after that saw another fist fight between two women outside a movie theater.

    I was embarrassed about it and kept it a secret for years and years. I even shoplifted a women's wrestling magazine from the grocery store once because I was too embarrassed to buy it! I began drawing pictures of my fantasies a little later, and now I have binders full of my own catfight art. Thanks in large part to the internet I also have tons and TONS of videos and clips. I too am insatiable when it comes to my hunt for new catfighting material. (In fact I was websurfing looking for catfight pics or vids I hadn't seen when I came across your post.)

    The bottom line is I've learned over the years it's nothing at all to be ashamed of. The vast majority of people in the world have some kind of sexual hang ups, even if many people won't admit to them. Nowadays most of my friends know about my fetish, and none of them think it's particularly weird. I've made money selling my artwork, and I even had a girlfriend for awhile who, when she found out about my fetish, would entertain me by telling me about different female friends of mine she wanted to fight. (This was purely fantasy based. Like you, I don't consider myself a sadist, and although my fantasies are sometimes pretty violent, the idea of people actually getting hurt in real life is a bit of a downer.

    Hope this helps!
     
  11. Lafincoyote

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    I would personally attempt to break up any fights between females, especially if I knew one or both of them. Fighting is not condusive to good health and people are severly injured in such activities, like eyes lost, broken bones, chipped, lost and broken teeth, bruised and damaged organs. Personally I think your sick and need to see a shrink!
     
  12. duuwee52

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    Well this is a very interesting topic. Since it the subject is exactly what I am looking for, let's chat!
     
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  13. Gongshaman

    Gongshaman Modus Lascivious

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    lol troll multiples, GTFO
     
  14. mister7892004

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    Hi, I have had a girl fight fetish for many years, I'm in my early sixties, married with grown children. I have had a normal sex life with my wife since the beginning. However, ever since puberty I've been turned on by female combat. I was about 9 years old when I saw an old black and white movie that featured a girl fight and although I knew nothing abut sex, I was aroused by the sight of fighting women. I recognized this at the time, never discussed it as I was too embarrassed to do so, but the intrigue started there. Afterwards, there were episodes of the old ``Avengers`` series that would now and then feature a girl fight. I watched the show every week in the hopes that there would be one, so great was my interest. And whenever there was one, the reaction inside my pants was always the same.

    I was about 11 years old when I saw the movie ``One Million Years BC`` with Raquel Welch. Of course, Raquel Welch herself was every boy's fantasy, one of the true movie bombshells of that time, and I viewed her as such, but when she got into a cave girl fight in the movie (which I did not know would happen the first time I saw it), my penis hardened immediately. I was absolutely entranced by the sight of her fighting another girl, and of her winning the fight.

    I carried on with my life and had very fulfilling sex with my wife over the years. But the fetish for female fighting never died, and I would masturbate to it whenever there was a lull in my sex life. Today, in my sixties, the lulls are ever greater as my wife's libido has diminished tremendously, but mine has not. So, I've turned more and more to the girl fight fetish that has always given me gratification.

    The advent of the internet has revealed to me that I am not alone with this particular fetish as there are numerous sites dedicated to female combat. I am not into MMA or boxing, nor am I into sites that show real fights. My fetish developed watching movie fights, all staged, and so this is where my interest is: The fantasy of beautiful women fighting each other, no blood, no bruises, just make-believe to look real, with a victory pose at the end.

    Today, I understand my female fight fetish as an inherent part of my sexuality. It's there, and, in combination with occasional sexual episodes with my wife, it fulfills me.
     
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  15. Ben Smithfield

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    I see how old this post is. But everything in it applies to me. I LOVE CATFIGHTS!!! I watch all types from mud wrestling to full blown street brawls. I can't get enough of it. I watch a catfight at least once a week
    Right now for some reason it's in over drive. I start loving catfights as young as age 8 or 10. I use to watch soap operas and Dynasty looking for catfight. I too would rather watch catfights than porn. There are a lot of people that have this fetish. Now I'm trying to figure out if I'm a sadist. I don't like one sided fight I hate beat downs and jump ins. But I love a even catfight with both women evenly matched. Catfights are part of my sexuality
     
  16. Ben Smithfield

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    I agree with the 100000% I'm the same way too and I don't find most mma or boxing to be a turn on too
     
  17. Ben Smithfield

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    Nobody wants to see someone seriously injured. It's a catfight not a boxing match or MMA. Most of us that are turned on by catfights (from mud and oil wrestling up to yes real life street fights) but we don't want to see anyone beat up. Goggle the term Catballing and you'll see what it is most of us are into.
     
  18. Ben Smithfield

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    We are so much alike on this topic it's scary. I've loved to see women fight each other since I was as young as 8. I'm 46 now. My wife "knows" I like "catfights" but she thinks it's mostly mud and oil wrestling. She doesn't know I like real street fights too. No beat down, weapons or blood but nice evenly match women fighting in public. I love that too in addition to the professional arrangement fight done by actual companies. Don't worry there are a ton of men and even women believe it or not that love catfighting. As long as it's not interfering with you life you should be ok.
     
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    Well said Ben .. I'm Andy 62 yo love all of it .. I only found out a few years back it has an actual Fetish name "Agonophilia" the arousal of a struggle or fight boxing or wrestling etc ... a few Google variations of meanings but in essence along those lines ... I was aroused b4 the age I could jack off by the sound of angry females raised voices my body would tremor didn't know why obviously .. lol glad I do since it's a lifetime past time !!!
     
  20. mister7892004

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    It's nice to see this thread revived after so many years. I originally posted here in 2018, and my words back then are just as true today, maybe even more so. I'm in my mid-sixties now, and I masturbate to girl fights very frequently. I mentioned in my 2018 post how the catfight in One Million Years BC (with Raquel Welch) was a game changer for me when I was 11 years old. I couldn't stop thinking about it and began masturbating with this fight replaying in my mind. Over time, I would modify it to suit my tastes : The girls would be topless, and sometimes in heels. I would change the setting to modern times in an indoor living room or boudoir, or an outdoor setting. That's the beauty of fantasies. There are no limits. I can say, however, that there are parts of that fight that became the bedrock for future and current fantasies : Firstly, the fight is quite even until the end. Secondly, the fight has a clear winner which is critical. Thirdly, I saw the importance of facial expressions of girls in combat, and what a turn-on this alone can be. In the One Million Years BC fight, Raquel Welch defeats Martine Beswick. I was so turned on by the victory scene, seeing Raquel sitting on Martine's stomach, looking down with an expression of triumph, and Martine, having lost the fight, laying on her back with her arms pinned to her side with an expression of anguish as she looked up at Raquel. All of these things became elements for more fantasies with different girls. There are flaws in this fight, and I rarely re-watch it, but in my early puberty, I was so excited by it that my lifelong love for catfights took hold and never went away. It is as strong today as it ever was.
    At this stage of my life, I consider myself fortunate to be able to masturbate as often as if I do, all because of this fetish. I'll say again, as I did in my 2018 post : My fetish developed watching movie fights, all staged, and so this is where my interest is: The fantasy of 2 evenly matched beautiful women fighting each other, no blood, no bruises, just make-believe to look real, with a clear winner and loser, and a victory pose at the end.
     
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