well I can't say I was a product of an affair but, my parents were only dating for a couple months when I was concieved. Because of that they decided to get married though they hardly knew each other. They then had a horrible marriage. When I was a young teenager and found out by accident I always felt like it was my fault. I'm sorry you haven't met your other family though. I don't know how that feels but it must suck to not be able to meet them and have a relationship with your siblings.
my parents dated in highschool and my mom got pregnant. when she was about 6 mos preggers her and my dad went to the courthouse and eloped... *shrug* i only know that from piecing together information and my dad's mom telling me a little bit about it too.... i don't know if that would make me a love child or not... i'm also sorry you don't know any of your family on your dad's side... seems like it would be really tough... you're an only child i assume?.... did it make your mom and you really close, or was it difficult because she was a single mom?... sorry i ask a lot of questions... i just havn't had many oppurtunities to ask them to children of single parents... i'm curious abou thow the situation worked... i know my grandpa had a "love child" with a lady he had an affair with... he (the child) is about 30-something i think... he knows all of us though.. don't know how it came about, but he really is one of our family... ppl in my family don't talk much about "bad stuff" obviously... so i never know details...
actually not meetin them doesn't bother me. i guess that is bad but i feel satisfied with the siblings i have now. plus it doesn't help that they have never cared or wanted to meet us either. i could be the "bigman" and try to get us all together but really i have no desire.
my mom was 16, my dad was 19 they broke up when I was 6 months.... I don't know the definition of a love child but I think I qualify. I was the result of a summer fling
so missfontella and Piezoluminescent, just wondering, how is your relationship with both your parents?
love my Dad, he has always done his best for me my Mom's a bitch, I don't wish her any harm but I haven't spoken to her in years
i was conceived (sp) on MDA. and my mom did heroin while she was pregnant with me, smoked grass, ate speed, and my dad LOVED DMT..... so yeah, im pretty fucked up in the head
I'm a "love child" as well. My mom was 16, my father 25, married, with a kid. He was in the air force and stationed in Germany (my mom is german). He got her pregnant, then went back to the US to get divorced...well, he never came back. Come to find out, he stayed married to his wife and got HER pregnant 6 months later! I have never met him, but talked to him on the phone once last year, and emailed a few times. I also write my sister who is 6 months younger than me about once a week. All of the sudden, my "father" stopped writing me back. Oh well.
