Can you be in love with someone but not attracted to them? What if the attraction was once there but has gone? If you love them in every other way should sexual attraction matter?
I think they're are endless forms and ways to love. About a year ago I was providing in home care to a man dying from a horrible disease that was disfiguring him and slowly paralyzing him. You had to have a strong stomache just to look at his face. But his wife adored him and I'm certain that she made love to him as long as he was able.