Hi I really need help. I have known this girl. At my job for some time now where friends and every time I’m working and I know she is working to I run over to here job say hi and jock around. I have has strong feeling for her for some time now but I could never really tell her. So I went to work today and I find out the girls I like was looking for a boy. One of here co works told me that so I said that type of guys se was into to but here co works did not know but she asked me if I liked her friend. And I told her yes and that I was going to finally ask her out but some thing came up. 1.) the one of the co works at her job as me how old I was and I said 20. 2.) And the girls I likes is 26. one big age gap. 3.) But I say I would still tell her how I feel 4.) But now I don’t know how to go about letting her know 5.) And still winner here over 6.) What should I say 7.) How should I go about letting her know 8.) And how do I winner her over.
koku_jin, 1. This girl is only five years older than you. You may think that this is already a big age gap, but that is only your perception. More important than age is maturity. If you are both mature enough then five years will not seem so big an age gap. 2. I think it's good that you are still willing to tell her even if you think there is a big age gap between you. It means you have the courage to try. 3. I don't know how any of us can help you win her over. As for telling her, that is really up to you. We know nothing about this girl and nothing about you so we wouldn't know where to start. 4. That being said, why don't you focus first on telling her and worry about her answer afterwards?
I dont think age is that big of a deal, as long as you have the same level of maturity and understanding. That is the key. Just go and tell her. You dont know what you would be missing unless you try it out. I see that you have the courage to do it, so why wait for it. Good luck and let us know how it went...
