Lost on the flat prairie

Discussion in 'Sexual Health' started by jhorapalok, Nov 13, 2013.

  1. jhorapalok

    jhorapalok Guest

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    I have been married to my wife for last ten years. On my first intimate date, I startled to see her breast, it was as flat as a teen-aged boy's breast. But later i tried to recover and concentrate on her other aspects of physical and mental beauty. After four years of dating i finally took decision to marry her and i did so accordingly. It was a decision based more on logic than on anything.

    I have a six-year old boy whom i love beyond anything on this world. But i have been living with a taste of dissatisfaction about my wife's breast. Whenever i see a plump breast of a woman i heaved a sigh of despair. I could not come out of it for the last ten years.

    I am a monogamous person all through my entire life. I still have a tremendous longing to have sex with women.

    Do anyone have any suggestion for recovery of my situation?
     
  2. RubySoho6

    RubySoho6 Organized Chaos

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    Get over it. Women come in all shapes and sizes. You knew her breast size when you married her. That is who she is. If its something that you couldn't look past then you should have decided that a long time ago. I would hope she is so much more to you than just someone to have sex with. I would hope that you love her for more than what her body does for you. I feel like when you marry someone there are always compromises. I'm sure there are things about you that she's not super stoked about either. Those kind of deal breakers are things that should have been decided before you got married and had a child.
     
  3. drumminmama

    drumminmama Super Moderator Super Moderator

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    There will come a day when she wishes you had hair, but will love you and be faithful because you are an individual, and her partner.

    So, you chose to marry a woman with a flat chest. Seemingly, having a child didn't add much. Sometimes it does, sometimes, not.
    Maybe you could get over a fascination with breasts and get all interested in her hips, her hair, her buttocks....
     
  4. scratcho

    scratcho Lifetime Supporter Lifetime Supporter

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    You CAN buy boobs these days, you know. But I agree with Ruby and Drummin. I'm sure she can still feel good and affected by attention to her breasts, regardless of size.
     
  5. RubySoho6

    RubySoho6 Organized Chaos

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    He can buy them but does she want them? Maybe she's ok with her breast size. I have plenty. I would be more than happy to share if I could. haha.
     
  6. scratcho

    scratcho Lifetime Supporter Lifetime Supporter

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    The poor girl. She needs someone to appreciate how she is , not how someone wishes she was. Somewhat late to be concerned about this now.
     

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