Losing Your Virginity

Discussion in 'Random Thoughts' started by redyelruc, Jul 25, 2009.

  1. redyelruc

    redyelruc The Yard Man

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    Now, I know some of you fags are still virgins but for those of us who aren't...

    Where did you lose it?
    Were you afraid/nervous/drunk/disappointed?
    Was it fun?

    If you are still a virgin, are you holding on to it cos you want to or cos you can't lose it?
    Are you curious?
     
  2. i_was_in_shroom_land

    i_was_in_shroom_land Shroomier than you!

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    his house.
    no, yes, no, yes.
    i guess.

    yes.
    yes?
     
  3. lunarverse

    lunarverse The Living End

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    In the basement of my old house and I was 14 years old

    afraid no/ nervous maybe a little/ drunk no/ disappointed no

    Yea it was alright I guess, I didn't cum though
     
  4. Tree-Hugger

    Tree-Hugger The Chainsaw

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    I'm still a virgin because I ask myself, "Will I regret having sex with him?" My answer so far has always been yes. I didn't have sex when I was a teenager because of an incident that happened. Then I was pressured into taking a vow of abstinence, and now I just as myself that question.

    Am I curious? No.
     
  5. BraveSirRubin

    BraveSirRubin Members

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    I was 15, it was on one of the islands off the coast of Honduras... really chill backpacker place.

    She was 27, skinny, blonde, and Swedish.

    I was rather very drunk, and she pulled out a bag of cocaine, and it went on from there.

    I don't really remember a whole lot afterwards other than parts.

    Hell, I don't even remember her name, I'm not really sure if she ever told me though.

    Never did see her again.

    Oh well.
     
  6. wastingthedawn

    wastingthedawn *~Pure Light~*

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    very tender story :)
     
  7. Face Eater

    Face Eater Banned

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    I was 19. I met a semi-attractive girl at a work party and she "ate" me in the sense that she was a man eater. I drove her to her place and we went to bed. I was nervous and awkward the entire time, the sex was very ordinary and I walked away feeling half empty/confused and half jubilant at having lost my virginity. It was okay. I really liked being naked with somebody. I liked the softness of her skin and her breath.

    The next time I had sex was amazing, which pretty much ruined me for life.
     
  8. redyelruc

    redyelruc The Yard Man

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    You're a virgin?:eek::eek::eek:
     
  9. sunshine186

    sunshine186 midnight toker

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    Neighbor's driveway.
    I was nervous, but not afraid. I wasn't disappointed, either.
    Yeah, it was fun.
     
  10. nesta

    nesta Banned

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    well i suppose if by this you mean genital-genital sex, then i can answer easily, more or less.

    we were in my old car. we didn't have anywhere else to go usually. we'd played a lot with oral sex, toys, etc., but she wanted to save vaginal intercourse for later in life. eventually we were parked....she was actually in bandages because she'd gotten shingles, primarily on one thigh. she was recovering, feeling a lot better, and we got to fooling around, being careful of the bandages and everything. we'd been through a lot, and we were very, very close at that point. she told me that despite a few years of conviction that she'd wait till she was 18 for it, she wanted it to be me, and then.

    we had done a lot of things together already, pretty extensively, but this was different, and awkward at first. eventually everything came together beautifully. i didn't finish that way, but we did both finish otherwise (no condom...she was on birth control to manage her cycle, but occasionally didn't get it at the same time every day, so she didn't trust it as primary birth control)

    anyway, despite circumstances, it was very intimate and i couldn't have been happier. i still don't think i could have been. people say a car isn't romantic. its not, but location really is a pretty damn minor factor in a lot of cases.
     
  11. Tree-Hugger

    Tree-Hugger The Chainsaw

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    Yeah....you didn't know? :confused:
     
  12. naedhippie

    naedhippie Banned

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    in my bedroom - my parents house, they worked a lot.
    yes, yes , no- um, not really?
    sorta, .. sorta scary sorta painful and awkward.
     
  13. redyelruc

    redyelruc The Yard Man

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    Nope.

    I'm coming to America.:D:D

    Wait for me.:cool:
     
  14. Frieden

    Frieden Senior Member

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    I was 17. It took place in a tent. Just a tad nervous. I was not drunk, but I believe I had a few drinks before hand. Wasn't exactly fun...probably more uncomfortable. I couldn't walk straight for the next few days. Looking back, I'm not upset I did it when I did, but I wouldn't do it again.
     
  15. Tree-Hugger

    Tree-Hugger The Chainsaw

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    Haha ok.
     
  16. whimbrel

    whimbrel Wasteland Soldier

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    in my bed when i was 18...around xmas time
     
  17. Duck

    Duck quack. Lifetime Supporter

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    I lost it when I was 18, on Valentine's Day.
    I was a little nervous sure.
    It was awkward and fun and amazing - I sure picked the right girl to lose it with =)

    Also, I hate the concept of virginity and usually don't participate in such silly ideas =P
     
  18. prissbaby

    prissbaby creepy

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    I was 15 and it was on a playground in my town, after drinking at my house all night.
     
  19. simplistic

    simplistic Member

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    O boy O boy, somebody on this thread is going to cry.
     
  20. prissbaby

    prissbaby creepy

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    lol I know I edited my answer because of it's emo-ness
     
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