Looks Vs Personality

Gurls would you a prefer to be with a good looking guy that treated you like shit and was a player, or would u prefer a guy thats a lil fat but real nice, sweet and caring, i need to know cuz i had a gurl brake my hart telling me that i was nice but she would rather be with my cousin cuz he's good looking, i still wonder if she just wanted to get played or didnt care cuz the looks were more important to her.

 

I would rather be with a guy who was a bit chubby anyway minus the personality differences. Your girl was a hoe...sorry

 

I know that I'm a guy, and so probally not allowed to answer this question, but I go for Personality every time...

 

Looks are important, there's no denying that-but in the long term, personality prevails so much more.

 

I would have to disagree. You could be dating the most ugly person in the world, with one eye dropping down, half a mouth, and a nose that was upside down... but if that person was kind, gentle and caring, if that person made you laugh and always put you first, you would see past all of that, and see the beauty within. To you, that person will be beautiful.

 

i like guys on the chubby side anyway so i'd go for the latter of the two

 

i would rather be with the guy that treated me good.There has to be some sort of attraction there though.

 

That's true Dan but even getting to the dating point could be tough. Yeah they are both important to me, in the end personality wins. Sort of like that tag line of "I'm fat but your a bitch and I can lose weight" LOL

 

LOL - love it. I've just set that as my MSN Messenger display name hehehe

 

well that's good, I made somebody's moment

 

Dude, I'd say forget about her. You can do much much better. Doesn't sound like she's looking for a player but looking to play. I'm gonna assume you're a young guy. GIRLS go mostly for looks.it's a total image thing/all about f***ing. As they get older and mature a bit, they realize that there's way more to a guy than looks. Like someone who has a good job, head on their shoulders, will go somewhere in life, and is an all around good dude. If you're ever out and about, and ya see some pudgy dude, kind of nerdy looking, with a skinny blonde who has a nice rack and ya start wondering WTF, ya know why. Just be patient. Your time will come

 

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when you first meet someone you like, looks are quite a big part of the attraction. however, personality is what makes you like the person more and allow a proper relationship to develop.
I'd go for someone who had a great personality instead of a gorgeous looking player SOB anytime!

 

Wow, that's cool! That's what all the human beings should worry about. There's a lot more than looks. And besides, in about 25 years you probably don't look like a superstar anyway...

I like the idea of a nose upside down!

 

It's all very well...... until you sneeze...

 

Hey baby. How you doin'. :wink, wink: :nudge, nudge:

 

haha niiiiiice! your adorable.

 

Well, hey, we're not exactly the most sought after type of man.

I prefer to be a little heavy, shows that I know how to enjoy a good meal... or three.

 

personality. I'll admit, eye candy is nice, but i go for the connection more than anything. Thats what its all about.

 

yeah, personality is the key. (This isn't exactly groundbreaking), but just looks are all well and good if all you want is a one night thing, but in the end it's someone's personality that makes them attractive, that makes you want them for who they truly are.