Looking to Share Stories/Experiences

I'm looking for a man/woman/couple to share experiences or desires via email or another messaging app. We have been in the lifestyle for the past decade, so we have a good amount of experiences to share.

 

It depends on what you expect out of that conversation, but you can PM me about it if you like.
We only have experience with MMF meetings though. Maybe a bit too tame for you.

 

So my wife and I have been together for 4 years now and we have always been very sexual. We have played with many different toys, swings and anything else we can try. Having sex in public when we can. We are also into pee play. We are looking for new ideas or games to add to our fun. Do you have any suggestions?

 

It depends on what you are willing to add. You can add another person. You can use a toy like vibrating underwear so you two are in public and one person has the remote to tease the other. There are tons of things to spice up the sex life, but it depends on your restrictions and limits. What are your limits and restrictions?

 

We are both willing to try anything at least once. My wife isn’t comfortable with adding another person. Neither of us are into extreme pain but a little in the moment is good. Going into public is exciting. We have an assortment of toys.

 

This sounds simple, but have you tried using nipple clamps, blind folds, restraints? Once you blindfold someone also try putting ear plugs in. If someone cannot see or hear then the rest of their senses are heightened. Also, buttplugs during sex are enjoyed by some people. Ever go to a bar to pick her up like you don't know each other?

 

I’ve tried to get her to role play, as in acting like we’ve never met. She says she feels silly. We are slowly working on butt plugs and anal. Pee play seems to be a regular, not in a bad way.

 

No offense, but it seems like you two have a lot of restrictions. Maybe you should just move slowly. You can find lists of the 100 sex bucket lists items. Try working on a list like that.

 

Try this site.

The Ultimate Sexual Bucket List: 75 Sex Acts to Try Before You Die

 

This is a great list. I removed a couple and replaced them with my own. Going to have to print it out and at my next party, hand them out to couples and see who’s got the highest score.

 

Sex with someone who has just had sex with someone else would be near my top thing to have done

 

Oh yea , that is one of my favorites .