Risks in surgeries are a valid concern. And I hope anyone that would put themselves through surgery would take this into consideration. Talking beforehand to a therapist and putting serious thought into it should also be done, in my opinion, and to make sure all other feelings and such are sorted. So those are some good points. The decision should be taken very seriously. And don't worry about it. We both meant well, but we're only human, and hey, these things happen Oh, and Erica, soo didn't mean to hijack the thread! Edit: Oh, and so didn't mean to confuse you Lost! I was actually confusing my self writing that post trying, and trying to make sure I wasnt getting it all mixed up lol