Late bloomer into sex just began last year at age 37. My partner seems to not enjoy it like she did in the beginning. I would only last a few pumps and blow she was very understanding at the time. A year later I'm able to last 20 minutes of penatrative sex and really give or a banging from my point but she shows very little signs of being excited like no moaning or even seems into it. I tried foreplay, licking, massage, kissing nothing she seems into. She just wants me to fuck her and even says to just finish already. In the beginning she wanted all the above and wanted me to have sex raw. Now she wants me to use a condom and then complains the entire time she hates the smell of the condom and does not want me to lick her pussy or even play with her breasts. I'm just really confused what has happened if anyone has any advice
Just ask her what’s wrong! Maybe add in toys, mutual masturbation etc ask her if she’s got any fantasies, if there’s any she’d like to ask out.
Women as they get older have mood swings. Could just be she’s not interested as she first was because it’s no longer new and exciting. I would just pull back and talk to her to try and figure out what’s up. You may find if you back off she may become more receptive.
