Try what? I wouldn't mind showing any male learning about being not just ok with whatever he likes, but to embrace all pleasure like has. I once was naive and hated myself. Now I know that in reality, I'm sexy as fuck and men and women both like seeing me erect or penetrated. I do too, be In love with however you feel. If shy....fuck yourself until you learn how to cleanse your self and learn muscle conrol.. Only thing I can't help you learn is how to cum in your own ass. I've tried lol