Living alone makes you become selfish?

Well excuse me - i worked hard all day danced with some chicks had a few beers and now i can lie on my bed and watch whatever the fk i like - no-one to answer to.when i lived with a gal it was 'you planning on staying up late?' - 'what are we doing tomorrow?' - 'I want your cock in my mouth' - 'where is kid number 1 - wheres kid number 2' - sorry but i just gave all that shit up - it's just fine the way it is.

But good luck to all the family members out there who feel the need to escape on hip forums

 

Yes sir, thats my life, I come home to know exactly where all my stuff is, I know my bank account is intact, no one can tell me its there turn for the TV.

 

sounds like you are trying to sell yourself on it?

I like it for a while, but i think it gets boring

 

Remember what's said bout the number 'one'?

 

so...are the kids yours? did you walk away from them? If the kids are yours, remember one thing: they didn't ask for it, nor do they deserve it; Please don't be one of those deadbeat dads that don't give a shit.

 

Lonely is a state of mind and all the voices are keeping me company still.

 

thats not selling being attached though - and no I not sell - I only offer.If you have good friends - you can also remain aloof with female friends instead of being 'spoken for' - then it's a little painful moustache theme park of adventure

 

One can only remain aloof with females for a period of time without before either one gets you, or you become the old guy at the bar with the rehearsed lines

 

no - i lived with a mother of two first to see what i could be in for.alot - but

Not my cup of tea.But i'm not saying everyone should be on their lonesome - just saying me was not one who was meant to carry on the popular wheels of human pro - er pro - er prostitution NO pro - fkn - pro - procreation!! - far too irresponsible plus babies crying would drive me absolutely insane

 

is not true - well yeah true to a certain extent,but theres always women who have rehearsed lines too.What - you gonna sign all of us old people off? is there no hope for an old single guy? not if he's fkn lookin and she's lookin

 

Yep there is a place for bar flies in the overall scheme of things.

 

well then...you are doing a good thing.

 

no, just givng you some thoughts.......

I'm alone all summer, and i like part of it, and dislike the other. I the end I'll be happy when it ends...left to my own devices a little bit too much...plus the woman I'm with doesn't prevent me from doing much that I want to do

 

shit - i should be more argumentative then that discussion wouldn't have ended so soon.So - out of the rainbow whats your favourite? fluffly clouds or purple.

no - but christ i'm 33 - i should be married and carrying on the family name - theres no-one left according to my mother - my brother had an autistic son. - see the hard line perception - thats not me - it never occured to me - but my mom told me this the other night.I really like Kal - yeah he's autistic and apparently he'll never make a girl pregnant - not for physical attributes but mental - well i wouldn't say thats 100% definate,cos he still functions like any other guy
but it's like I almost feel bound to carry on the family name
should i forget about it? whats in a name?
or should i - the other?

 

If you aren't ready to be serious about life, then you are by all means doing the right thing; it would be selfish to hook up with someone at this point in your life when you know for certain that you aren't ready.

 

that is what I hope for in a relationship. I'm open to being in relationships, there's a lot to enjoy in them, but I also know that I can be very selfish and want to do my own thing - going to shows with friends sometimes on hard drugs, going skiing like a mad man followed by fairly excessive apres ski partying. These are things that I'll probably always want to do quite a bit of I'm guessing because at 30, I really haven't slowed down to much in either of these pursuits.

 

I can see that would be agony- i feel for you
S

 

being an only child makes you even more selfish d: I've lived alone and it had no effect on me as there is no way I can possibley become more self-centered

 

it makes me content.

 

Amen sister!!!!!

I am technically not an only child....but I was 14 before a sibling came into my life, so I already had all the personality traits.

Alone is OK....most times....