List of partner fetishes and/or kinks, what did you like/dislike?

Since I haven't had sex in almost a year, all I can do is think about all my past partners!

My own kinks:

• Tongue play - I get very aroused when my partners use their tongue. Not just in the private areas (no duh), but on my neck, earlobe, ear, lips, nipples, and belly.
• BDSM - Not like in porn where it's like leather play and stuff, but just partners who know what they want (which can be a double bind).
• Keeping cum in my mouth as long as I can - When a man cums in my mouth, I prefer not swallowing it, but keeping it my mouth for as long as I can. Eventually I end up swallowing it due to a slight gag reflex.

Partners fetishes/kinks I didn't like:

1. Male

• Blackmail. I was forced to have sex with him, otherwise he would out me to my partner at the time, and my cousin.
• Aggressive, forceful fucking. While I enjoy a nice hard fuck, when I want it to stop, I want it to stop. He wouldn't.
• Face and ass slapping. Again, I do enjoy a playful face or ass slap, but he did so to make sure it hurt.

2. Female

• Anal only. Now don't get me wrong, I LOOOOOVE anal, but sometimes I want variety, you know? No pussy licking, no pussy fucking, no blowjobs, no cum in mouth. Only asslicking, assfucking, and cumming in ass. On the plus side, she was a very sexually dominant, and very beautiful woman.
• Teasing and Humiliation. We only had sex when she wanted to. If I wanted to, she'd tease me with tongue play (which she knew really turned me on), but she wouldn't let me play with her. I'd get so horny that I'd start getting myself off, and then she'd stop licking me, and start humiliating me, making me want to stop. If I stopped, she'd strip or masturbate in front of me, but if I started again, she'd stop and humiliate me some more. She really got off on it. Even when I started to cry, she'd laugh and humiliate me some more, and if I didn't stop, she'd leave.

3. Male

• Extreme libido. I can orgasm at most 3 times a day with a day of rest in between, but typically, even twice a day I get pretty sore. He wanted to have sex 5 or 6 times a day, pretty much every day!
  
• Extreme libido with a large cock. While I LOOOOOVE large cocks, 9 inches was a lot to handle, especially 5 to 6 times a day.
• Extreme libido with a large cock and a long time to orgasm. I swear, I told him he could be a porn star. So, I can handle people with high libido's. I can handle people with large cocks. I can even handle people who take a long time to orgasm... but all three combined? I just felt that our entire time together was with me getting him off. It took him anywhere from 2-3 hours to cum. Multiply that by 5 or 6, now you know what I was dealing with.

4. Male

• Rimming. I just don't enjoy doing it to guys.

5. Male

• Golden showers. He was a very nice guy, and had a pleasing body, but he really liked pissing all over me... but only literally! Not enjoyable!

Partners fetishes/kinks I like:

1. Male

• Deepthroating (large cock). The first cock in my mouth was about 8" (which is very much above average), but I wasn't able to deepthroat it until after a couple of weeks. While I don't miss the sore throat from deepthroating, I do very much hearing a man moan while doing it!
  
• Balls deep anal (large cock). He was very much into "going all the way in". It definitely hurts, and I'm not a fan of pain, but having a man's manhood all the way in me just feels incredible!
  
• Ass-to-mouth. I've always had great hygiene due to my diet and being fit, and I always fantasized of ATM with females, but I never thought about doing it myself. When it happened, I didn't give it a second thought. While I don't get anything out of doing it, it really got him going (and hard)!
  
• Oral creampies and cum swallowing. When I came in women's mouths, it was never all the way in. When he came in my mouth, it was in as far as it would go, and I could feel his whole cock throbbing while his cum would spurt at the back of my throat.

2. Female

• Anal play (rimming, fingering, pegging, ass-to-mouth). The first woman who actually enjoyed anal (not the same woman above in the "kinks I didn't like" section. Her ultimatum was, if I wanted her to do something, I had to do it, first. I do enjoy being rimmed, fingered and pegged.
  
• Swallowing my own cum. Due to her ultimatum, I wanted to cum in her mouth and have her swallow. Before that, though, I had to cum in my own mouth and swallow. It was such a turn on to do that for someone!
  
• Ass-to-mouth. The first woman who did it for me, and it was such a turn on to see her enjoying it! Otherwise, it doesn't really do anything for me, except get me hornier because she's hornier.
• Cumming on nipples. While I enjoyed cumming in her mouth, her kink was for me to cum on her nipples.
• Oral orgasm to vaginal orgasm. It was a difficult sequence, but to get her to orgasm the way she wanted, I would have to go down on her, and while she was having an orgasm, I would have to fuck her really hard with my cock, and if I could time it right, cum on her nipples as she was in her throes. God, I loved getting her to orgasm. Her eyes would roll up, she'd stop breathing, moan in ecstasy, and just twitch all over!

3. Male

• Gangbang. While I prefer a more intimate one-on-one relationship, my first open sexual relationship introduced me to multiple gangbangs. While I don't dislike them, I don't necessarily like them, either? While I did enjoy sucking on cock while getting assfucked, I disliked being treated as just a sexual object (which I was).

4. Male

• Public sex. Probably the kinkiest person I ever met. He always wanted sex in public, if we could get away with it. Restaurants, movie theaters, parks, airplanes, trains, cars, malls, etc.
• Butt plug 24/7. So... maybe not 24/7, but it was an interesting experience that I enjoyed, but took a LOT of getting used to. Because he always wanted sex whenever there was an opportunity, I always had to be ready. Therefore, he always had me wear a butt plug... all the time! I could write a whole post on that topic alone, lol.
• Butt plug ATM. When he would fuck me in the ass, he would stick the butt plug in my mouth to hold it. I don't enjoy this part of it, but the next part I liked.
• Butt plugged cum. Two parts to this. He would either cum in my ass, then stick the butt plug back in it so I'd have his cum inside me until it just disappeared? Or, he'd cum on my face while I still had the butt plug in my mouth, then he'd stick the butt plug back in my ass. This also has another part to it, which is...
• Cum covered facial in public. If he came on my face, it would usually be in public. While I tried my best to clean it up, it would dry up pretty fast, or get in my hair, or I'd miss a spot or two. I'd also smell his cum on me, and be afraid to get too close to people, or avoid eye contact.

5. Male

• Erotic asphyxiation. He was really into BDSM (as was I), but he took it to a new level that I didn't expect. I think I only went through with it because I trusted him. He took it in steps. He would use a bondage choker at first, and I wouldn't black out. Then he'd get to the point where I would black out, and once I did, he'd start fucking my ass, and I'd wake up up to him while he was thrusting. Finally, he'd get me to choke on his cock while it was deep in my throat, and he'd plug my nose while my hands were tied to my back with my legs. I'd come out of unconsciousness to him fucking my ass. He'd repeat this until he came in either my ass or in my mouth. It's the most intense non-orgasmic sex!
  
• Videotaped. To make sure he wasn't doing anything else, he videotaped all our sessions. I still think he has them, but I'm glad he hasn't uploaded them anywhere. Like I said, he was really trustworthy. Watching myself being fucked while getting fucked is such a huge turn on!

 

Mostly vanilla when it comes to sex with women but done the public sex videotaping rimming and anal with past female and current female partners .A lot more adventurous kinky with previous gay male partners lots of videotaping love to be tied up hair pulled face slapped verbally humiliated rimmed cum in mouth /face gangbang have sex with couples ...

 

LIKES W GUYS:
cum facials, cum swapping, gangbangs, being tag fucked and spit roasted, rimming and being rimmed, being deep-throated, light BDSM, all sorts of things u can do with your tongue ....and his, public sex, prostate play, mutual toy-play...... list so far....open for extending..hehe

DISLIKES W GUYS:
water sports, scat, fisting, heavy BDSM, overweight/obese

LIKES W WOMEN:
pussy eating, licking, sucking, fingering and penetration, nipple n breast sucking/play, being deep-throated, all tongue play

DISLIKES W WOMEN:
rimming, water sports, scat, overweight.

Glad to say I've had heaps of sex in the last year, all with different guys....around 150+ (& one shemale), and love the sex and variety.

Simon

 

Simon, you are on a roll in 2020. Keep it up.

 

why thank u My Captain....sure aim to try.....current lockdown a hassel but plans ahead.....

Simon x

 

I'm way behind you with only two since the lock down began.

 

well other than daily sex in India lockdown I only met one guy since 23 April.....and oh.... I'm horny .....

Simon