I've discovered miss perfect.. or at least she appears that way. It might be wishful thinking. I haven't spoken to her yet. Watched her from a far today for a bit. She's SO perfect! However there is another girl that I might stand a chance with. She's quite hot too. I'm not too worried about it. I know it's a brief thread but what do you guys think I should do
Laura is with another guy unfortunately. She's actually like a younger version of Laura though, who's more pure!! And no, I don't consider her a substitute.. I like this girl for herself
My gut instinct tells me you should go for the girl you been looking at from afar. If you get shot down, try with the other girl. Dating isn't exclusive especially in the beginning. Once you've crossed the BF GF line THEN most of society considers seeing other people as cheating. Btw how do you know this girl is pure? I think you have a bit of fantasy in your head.
So, I thought I was into one guy, and we held hands and did some cuddling, and I liked him a lot. I guess I still do, but not really. I don't see him around much, and he's sad a lot and made it seem like he didn't like me. Which is what made me really into this other guy. We're friends, and he's a total goof, but I like him a lot now. I was so happy when he was drunk on friday night and he was soo cuddly and I slept in the library with him and another friend. :love: I hope he likes me. When he was drunk, he kept wanting to hug and cuddle with me, and kept falling to the ground and dragging me with him, and he would press his forhead against mine. But he was drunk.... and he doesn't act any different from before
About that "perfection" thing that you speak of. It wears off pretty quick if you actually talk to women (men too). I think that you have a better chance with the woman who actually knows you. And who you talk with and enjoy talking with. Now, this isn't mean to discourage you from talking with the distant beauty. But if you are seeking either a romantic relationship or interlude, its best to have a conversational history with the woman in question. The distant woman should be moved into the "working on it" class. The less than perfect "other girl" is the only one of the two who is positioned to move into the "actively pursuing" category.
