Letting Wife's Ex Fuck Her Again?

So my wife and I have been together for 4 years now married for one. She has always kept I touch with one of her ex boyfriends with my knowledge. I know all about their history and why they aren't together anymore. About six months after our wedding we went through a very rough time and we drifted apart for many reasons. We got through it but during that time she admitted to me of sleeping with her ex and fooling around with him a few times. It really hurt for a couple months but the more I thought of them together the more I grew to enjoy and even get arroused by the images of them going at it. I have since told my wife I like thinking about them together and have started to ask her questions and hear stories of them. She wasn't sure at first but has since really been getting into it. I told her I've been thinking about wanting her to fuck him again and come home to tell me all about it. She's started really liking the idea. I told her I'd like pictures or videos but she's not comfortable with that she said. Also she's said she wouldn't be sure about coming home and fucking me too but she might. She kinda thinks it's gross. So anyway as anyone else out there had these thoughts or has done it? We've talked boundaries and she as many times assured me it would only be their friendship like it was and just sex. She's always telling me how much she loves the way he fucks her. She tells me she loves the way I fuck her too and she doesn't like him any better just that it's different. Anyway can anyone help me out here!?

 

You're going to have to rephrase the question.

 

can anyone give me feedback on experiences?

 

He's asking if its ok for him to be a cuckold

 

I would like to eventually have a threesone with her as well we've talked about it while in bed both MFM and FMF

 

If either of you would get jealous and flip out, you'd have to make plans for that scenario.

 

We have talked about anything and everything we can and that wouldn't be an issue. It's strictly just great sex and she has told me I could sleep with someone else too. She wasn't sure at first but the more I brought it up and we've played out scenarios in bed the more it turns us both on. We have also made agreements of what's ok and not ok to do and if either one of us were to start to feel uncomfortable with it it is to stop immediately. And we have a very strong and trusting marriage so I'm not worried about it

 

You have to think about whether either of you have the right to veto the other's choice of partners, for one thing.

 

It's a trust issue. Sure, your wife can be trusted. But the ex has been out in the world for a while. Consider all the different kinds of people he may have porked whilst pining for the one who got away. Or what if he's gone silent psycho and actually intends to infect you both? He could be an infected mass of diseases from HIV to Influenza. What's to be gained here? Good feelings for not being an asshole? This is your WIFE you are talking about. Will you feel then same 4 months down the road when you discover you have the clap? Or worse?

 

She only wants to be with her ex and that's all I want as well for her that way there's no chance of stds or things as that. And if I would be with someone else (which I don't think I would just my choice) I would only want o e other person for same reasons. We've discussed this also. For me it's the fact that I have a very attractive wife that is very desirable to someone else and she is mine to share. And the fact that I want my wife to be able to have fun with someone she loves to have fun with. He can pleasure her in ways I can not and vice versa.

 

She only wants to be with her ex and that's all I want as well for her that way there's no chance of stds or things as that. And if I would be with someone else (which I don't think I would just my choice) I would only want o e other person for same reasons. We've discussed this also. For me it's the fact that I have a very attractive wife that is very desirable to someone else and she is mine to share. And the fact that I want my wife to be able to have fun with someone she loves to have fun with. He can pleasure her in ways I can not and vice versa.

 

Only if he's willing to do a few things like....
Hone the bone
Gobble the goo
Honk on Bobo
Slob the knob
Gargle the kielbasa
Throat the mean weenie
Slurp the salami...................

 

I understand what your saying but we know for facts that he is not any of that. After their affair a few months ago we were all tested. There's a long story behind him that I won't go into right now lol but he is trusted as well. That's why he would be the one I'm comfortable with her

 

What if you choose a female that your wife feels is more attractive (in any way) than herself?

 

Then she would probably be jealous she didn't get a shot at her and would want to lol

 

Nope that's not what I'm asking for just sharing my wife and a possible threesome

 

What about communicating/dating/sleeping with the other partner without your spouse present? Is that going to be allowed?

 

With me and my other partner?

 

I was hoping to get some posts of stories of couples that have done this too. I really like all the questions your asking though that way I can get someone from the outside asking incase we missed some topics to discuss thank you

 

"your wife can be trusted"

This is the wife who cheated with the ex when the marriage had a rough spot. And this proposal is specifically with that ex.

I'm thinking that the prior cheating makes this whole thing very emotionally risky. What people say now, might not be what they feel later.
And, I'm thinking that this ex is the worst candidate to be the third party, because of the prior cheating. Having him as the third party increases the risk of this ending in disaster.

An ex-boyfriend is one thing. A prior partner in cheating on the marriage is different than ex-boyfriend.