Letting go of inhibitions.

Discussion in 'Bi Sex Discussions' started by topper, Jan 13, 2023.

  1. topper

    topper Member

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    Have you been able to let go of your inhibitions about Bi Exploration? Monkey Pox and other diseases,etc. sure puts a damper on any kind of exploring. My wife doesn't want me bringing home anything either. Nether of us have inhibitions when it comes to playing or acting out Bi scenarios with toys. What do you do? Wife just purchased a strapon harness and a new realistic cock dildo to go with it. She was so impressed with the realism of it, she sucked on it herself, just to test it out. Then she had me test it out. Its the feeling of being real without the hastle or fears. It comes to a point where Im willing to try anything she can come up with. If acting like a total cock and cum slut, Im on the list for best actor. Its the only way to feel safe and secure about it. Im too uptight to go cock hunting.How can you feel comfortable about mixing it up with someone New?
     
  2. LowHangers

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    Hey, if your wife is willing to play the roll with a strap-on go for it and enjoy it. I'm lucky that I've been with my guy for 13 years and he's introduced me to 4 other guys that he knew for many years. I have no interest in seeking out new playmates, but I would not turn a guy down if we got to know each other. I stick to married guys as the risk is very minimal knowing he's not out sucking and getting fucked by strangers.
     
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  3. thepapasmurph

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    Inhibitions is one thing but playing it smart and being cautious about bringing something home to your wife is another thing altogether.
    My inhibitions have been minimized by trying different things that I may have thought were too intimidating. Ive been able to see whether I really enjoyed something and wanted to do more - or if it just wasn't my thing and wouldn't bother again. I push myself to try it - like Mikey with the cereal commercial from years ago... Try it... You'll like.
     
  4. Lovnflman

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    I consider myself a tri-sexual. I’m open to trying anything once, and as you said if I like it I’ll do it again. If not, then I won’t.
     
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    It's great you and your wife are on the same page.
    It's a shame there are risks in playing with strangers..
    It would be good to explore widely and try everything, especially if your wife agrees.

    I hope you can venture out safely and enjoy all that's on offer.
     
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  6. amb5734

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    I let my inhibitions go to some extent as far as trying different things sexually. But , I still stick with partnered guys who are adamant about staying discreet and disease free. I want to stay that way as well.
     
  7. topper

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    My wife knows that my inhibitions went out the window, years ago, but at our age, we have limitations. I'll gladly slut myself out for her pleasure, which is watching me go to town on her strapon. Its safe, no hastle and always both fun and exciting. We tried a lot of crazy things in the past and liked it. I just try to find a wave to ride.Whatever works for you.Better Safe then Sorry.
     

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