less attractive friends

This sounds like something I would expect from a shallow female. I haven't even gone out much lately but from like high school through some of college I have been on both sides. Thinking back too, some better looking smoother friends actually hooked me up and I have talked up friends as well.

Definitely not a way I chose my friends though.

 

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Babe paraddddeee for a limited time only. Love these ladies

 

I was only kidding

I don't consider myself good or bad looking and I don't pursue sex.

I just thought it sounded funny so I wrote it.

 

you know this might end up biting you on the ass one day. I'm one of those girls thats gets more attractive the older I get, but that means I went through a serious ugly duckling phase in high school. I was friends with this beautiful girl with a nasty personality back then, and I'm pretty sure she used me to make herself look better..but the thing is, her personality was so shitty that guys usually ended up liking me more anyways. If you have the type of personality that chooses their friends based on their ugly factor, one day you might meet a great girl that prefers one of those ugly friends over you.

 

Shit, come to my house and bring them too. I'll let all of you ride it. lol

EDIT: You deleted the pics, so I assume you wanted me to delete them from the quote, as well. lol

 

Cool, see ya in ten brian

 

Awesome. I got some enough beer to go around

 

Doh for me then :biker:

 

sometimes i like to keep some of my hot female friends around because it makes it easier to meet chicks when they see me with them.

i can't say i even think about how attractive my male friends are though. couldn't care less.

 

truth, lol

same.

 

Oh,I hate to say this--welll--no I don't --when I was in school a hundred years ago, my friends and I,boys and girls were all good looking . We had it made,suckers!!

 

well let me make another difficult confession to you all since this has been brought up, over the past few years ive been told that when guys meet me they often are left wondering if im gay or not, it was part of the reason i experimented at one time before i came to the final conclusion that im not into guys, and so i went on with my life and was told by my friends that are girls that they could tell i wansnt gay because i inadvertently make it obvious that im attracted to them very much. plus looking that most of my friends are girls, and i seem to get along better with them, plus my general attitude towards life and relationship that i have a rather female mindset. so ive kind of come to the conclusion recently that im a lesbian with penis envy in a mans body. dont take that in the way that i wasn a sex change because i love being a dude and having my penis. but i make some very female choices in my life (im not very much interested in girls that have no personality, even if they are outrageously hot, im not very interested in short little flings; id rather had either a long term relationship or a one night stand. ive been known to sleep with my exes that i hate for no real reason other than i was seduced, im a bit more emotional than the average dude, and i always make the worst choices in girls, i always go for the bad girl that treats me like shit rather than the nice girl that likes me and would be a healthy relationship. and my reason for choosing those girls well aware? "you dont know them like me" or "i can change her" i cringe when i hear those words escape from my lips) i havent told many ppl but the ppl i have told (the ones that know me best) always say "holy shit it finally makes sense". i know, im weird.

hold your horses, i never said thats why i chose them, it just happened to come about that way. :/

 

You said you keep your friends that are assholes around because they are less attractive. That is choosing to be friends with them.

 

nope never pretended to be friends with someone just to make myself look better.. you sound like a pretty shitty person! even if i am friends with someone who might be seen as less attractive than me, the last thing i would consider would be how that might benefit me.

 

depends on which group of friends im with. the one i hung out with last night, yeah im the ugliest i'd say, mainly cuz my teeth are jacked up and i'm frickin as hairy as a yeti.
with the other group of friends though, im about the 2nd best-looking.

i havent really compared myself to other people in terms of attractiveness before, and i would never make friends based on looks. well if anything i would make friends with the less attractive cuz i get intimidated by good looks.

 

touche, although i think acquaintances that i hang out with is a better way to describe them, but its not like i seek out the uglys so i look better, and the friends ive lost were real friends, and i still consider them that and if they ever wanted to rekindle our friendships i would be happy and not because they are uglier than me. but the assholes kind of deserve it, so i dont feel that bad about it. as for my real friend, im constantly trying to find him someone, i feel bad because he really is a cool dude and will treat a girl like a queen too, plus i feel bad when i see his jealousy whenever im in a relationship, and its not pity i just want his life to be better, he has had it really rough and he doesnt deserve all thats happened to him.

and maybe you guys are right and i am a shitty person in general, but im not some monster; im generous, polite and friendly, i dont under-step the ppl i hate, and i do my best to make others lives more enjoyable. and i took the risk of exposing two of my biggest secrets that may earn your hatred or disrespect. and it was a big step for me to come clean to you my online family, and to myself the things i was ashamed to admit to myself. sure im a bit fucked up, and its caused me my fair share of problems. but im proud that i came out with it and didnt hold it in letting it eat me up

 

you don't seem like a shitty person and I liked your confession about being more like a female, i thought it was sweet and touching. I think its part of human nature to seek out people that make us look better. Granted, its an immature part of human nature but it doesn't make you a shitty person.

 

thank you:] i appreciate that. it was the hardest realization of my life and it really rocked my whole being for months, and made me second-guess my entire life and perception. and it was much harder to admit to others, especially you all here cuz lets be honest, the ppl on the internet arent exactly the most sensitive and forgiving

 

Same here. Almost all my friendships are based on common interests not looks.

 

I feel like this too sometimes. Lots of my girlfriends have told me i am "manly" cause i do construction work and can cut down a tree or whatever(I find this to be a very stupid compliment by the way), but sometimes i feel very effeminate.

I was also raised around lots of women(female cousins, aunts, sister), so i feel more comfortable talking to women then men about serious shit in my life, i know my guy friends talk amongst themselves about their serious issues, so it makes me feel weird sometime, but not too much.