Lap dance and the orgasmic experience

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  1. el demente

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    Sometimes (most times I think) the tease is the most exciting aspect of a sexual encounter. The actual cumming is just a small part of the experience. The more the tease the more intense the orgasm. Any joe (or mary) can just go stroke out a quick cum shot in probably less than a minute, but if you tease and please for 10-15-20-30 or even more the cumming becomes an explosion. The longer the tease the better the pleasure.

    But back to my original thought and in reference to the above. Does anyone else ever or want to experience a lap dance that would actually cause you to cum in your pants? I have this desire to experience this and have cum close before but never over the top explosion.

    I have had dancers give me a handjob while in the bar and I've even dated dancers and of course like others I have gone home and taken matters into my own hands. But I've never had that lap dance make me blow and that is something I do crave.

    Any others?

    The Demented One
     
  2. Barry Mandelay

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    I can't speak to having an orgasm and ejaculation by a stripper because a gentleman's club isn't convenient to me. But during other sexual interludes I have ejaculated and filled my clothes with semen. It's only happened a few times in my life but memorable none the less. If I ever had an opportunity to experience a lap dance that would actually cause me to ejaculate in my pants would I want to? Absolutely, I would. But it is not something I will go out of my way to have happen. I have had my wife manipulate my cock from outside my swim trunks causing me to ejaculate in them. I have masturbated several times and released semen in my pants covering the spot with my shirt tale as I went about my day. But never had anyone else do that to me.

    I'll agree the "tease" is the most exciting aspect of a sexual encounter. Not mostly but all of the time. No matter if it is a girlfriend, boyfriend, wife, husband, stripper, escort, masseuse, lover, or any other sexual being in which you anticipate having sex with this teasing, normally called foreplay, is what makes sex fun and enjoyable. Everything that is done to your body and mind which leads towards orgasm is the best part of the experience. If there wasn't any build up or anticipation prior to the orgasm the orgasm itself would be rather bland.
     
  3. Jack O

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    Never had the desire to cum in my pants during a lap dance but I've had some with a lot of touching that made me ooze precum. Dont want to bust a load in my pants then walk around with a huge wet spot. I do agree about the tease and please, love a good tease. It goes both ways, tease her but dont let her cum till you want. She'll go crazy till you let her cum and she'll cum hard!
     
  4. el demente

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    I wish we had good clubs around here. Around here is that stupid 3' rule or the bouncers are always on point. I haven't been to a good club in a long while. Maybe when all this other crap is over
     
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  6. osteban

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    One day at a party, I was sitting on the couch, and my GW was sitting on my lap. All this time she was rubbing my bulge with her ass and no one could know it
     
  7. Andy Schumer

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    I came in my pants at a stripper club a few times and that was the intention. I would wear the thinnest pants I had, or sweat pants, put a condom on while visiting the washroom and once in the private booth I took my penis out of my underwear. I informed the stripper I had a condom on and she did her thing.

    Before agreeing to go get a special dance I would tell the stripper I was looking for someone who would let me fondle her breasts plenty and edge me during a few “dances”.
    On occasions I would say I wanted to be touched and the stripper rubbed me with her hand. One did it through my ejaculation.

    one stripper I asked for a handjob and she said she would not want me to take it out or she would be done. No problem, I understand boundaries. But she surprised me when she actually gave me the handjob while my penis was still in my pants. I wore sweatpants so it was easy to grab it and stroke it near the end.

    One stripper straddled me and pulled the waistband away and reached in my pants to give me a handjob, another pulled it down.

    Usually they straddled me and rubbed up and down the shaft and the head, I let them know when to stop for a very short time.
    One put her knee between my legs and her thigh pressed against my penis, it surprised me that moving back and forth to vary the pressure against the shaft made me cum.

    I could have had a blowjob in a couple of places but I asked for one only once and got it.

    After the deed was done I went to the washroom to get rid of the condom and use toilet paper to wipe the semen off as much as I could.
     
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  8. osteban

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    I think that a condom is not needed, it is very pleasant to feel a mess in your pants
     
  9. Andy Schumer

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    I agree but it had to do with being in public places after and keeping it decent.
    Otherwise I would not mind the mess. In fact I did it grinding with my GF once.
    I would have been fine doing it again but we went further and it was out to be played with, or inside her
     
  10. osteban

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    I love making a mess in my pants, especially with my GF. she likes it too
     

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