We were talking about this at work and one guy said that no matter what he does or what he says that he can't seem to convince his wife that she is sexy. She is a little overweight and very self concious about it but he even tells us that it is not a factor to him but it is to her. This seemed like a good topic to discuss. Any Ideas?
My ex kept me WAAAAAAY happy by giving me 2-hour (professional quality since he's licensed) footrubs every night while we watched a movie. I usually swapped out and rubbed his feet as well. He also noticed anything I was doing and rushed to finish it when I turned away for a moment; I would put something away in the fridge, turn around, and the dishes would be done. He was always rubbing my shoulders, finding excuses to buy me stuff, but he didn't have to do anything in particular..he was so hot!!! I always pretended I picked him out of Las Vegas male stripper catalogue, because that's what he looked like. Yikes..gets me overheated just thinking about him But I know giving your wife a footrub would work because anytime he gave me a quick footrub at a ballroom dance after an hour or so of jitterbugging, we'd quickly gather a crowd of women, all joking about being next, and expressing envy. But it gives so much pleasure the ladies might prefer it to sex, so it might not work for the men afterall. But what a way to bait a hook!
i love that my husband still flirts, hits on me, writes me love letters.... he makes me feel like the prettiest most beautiful woman in the world. and that, gentlemen, is how you treat a lady.
I agree that unexpected kisses, compliments and rubs are a good thing. A massage is one of the best things in the world. Full body should definitely help her to feel great in her body.
After over 3 years, my man still doesn't go one day without calling me beautiful and sexy and that he loves me. He always comes up behind me and wraps his arms around me, kisses my head, and he still grabs/slaps my ass and gropes my breasts all the time
Yep. Basically that. He hugs me, kisses me and tells me I'm beautiful every day. I swear I can't get within arms reach of him without him touching one body part or another. We still flirt with each other even after a million years together. We still check each other out sometimes. Smile, wink, that kind of thing.