Ladies stop pretending

Discussion in 'Free Love' started by TheSamantha, Jun 7, 2013.

  1. TheSamantha

    TheSamantha Member

    http://thechart.blogs.cnn.com/2012/03/08/why-women-moan-during-sex/

    According to CNN, 66% of women make orgasmic noises during sex to accelerate their partner's climax, in other words to get it over with!

    87% of women moan during sex to boost their partner's self-esteem.

    Women also make noise to overcome fatigue, boredom!, and pain/discomfort.

    No wonder there's slut shaming. People can't fathom that a woman would have sex for free with no strings attached. They think that's the woman being used and getting nothing in return, "giving it up". Women don't have sex for the sake of it, there has to be something in return like love or money. Otherwise they're seen as fools. That's also why women take sex off the table at times and the men cheat.

    I would hate to hate sex. That would suck. I wouldn't even get married because I'd be signing up for a lifetime of that.

    Ladies, do you actually enjoy intercourse at all? Do you feel used if you hook up? What feels good about it to you? Why do you do it?
     
  2. Jo King

    Jo King wannabe

    Keep up the good work ladies ;)

    Men and women both seem to lie about sex. Just in different ways.
     
  3. enhancer13

    enhancer13 Senior Member

    I have known way more women that cheated then men so I guess if they didn't enjoy the sex they must have done it for the attention!
     
  4. sweet79

    sweet79 Banned

    I am noisy during sex but anyone would know when I cum. Its not just what sound I make but how my body reacts.

    I may have faked it once or twice with an x when he had been drinking and I just couldn't be bothered.

    I won't fake it anymore. Whoever I am with needs to know if I haven't been satisfied.

    I have sex because I love it. I came out of a 15 year marriage and started "dating". I had sex with a number of men, some more than once if they were exceptional. I only had regrets over one experience where the guy felt guilty, he wasn't over his ex-wife and was almost in tears over it.

    Its such an empowering thing for me to be able to ask for sex just because I am horny from a man, have some mind blowing orgasms, say thank you for a great time, good bye and not have to worry about him after that. Not until I receive a message or send one myself for more sex lol

    I even joined a swingers site for a while and tried phone sex and live cams. There is lots i haven't tried and not sure I will as Im in a relationship again but it was sure fun to play for a while.
     

  5. You are kind of wasting your time though, just means you are in the remaining 13% that arent frigid
     
  6. TheSamantha

    TheSamantha Member

    Do you guys think these stats are accurate?
     
  7. xxaru

    xxaru Guru of Porn

    I sometimes moan to make my partner feel better about what they're doing... Does that mean I'm pretending too??
     
  8. lively_girl

    lively_girl Member

    I don't fake anything during sex. The whole idea of faking instead of enjoying sex turns me off.

    Do you really think married people can't have great sex life?

    Yes, I do. Most of the time very much :sunny:. I never have sex, if I don't feel like it.
    I only hooked up with people I like and respect (no strangers) and who respect me too. I enjoyed it and have nothing to regret or feel bad about.

    Good sex feels good. I haven't hooked up with anyone since I started going out with my partner. I have no need for it.
     
  9. Mr.Writer

    Mr.Writer Senior Member

    There's a lot of people out there with:

    -intimacy issues

    -communication issues

    -trust issues

    -fidelity issues

    -self-confidence issues

    -ego issues

    the list goes on and on. Any one of these issues can result in bad sex. Unfortunately most people have lots of issues, so it's not surprising that most people have bad sex one way or another.
     
  10. Again, a complete load of crap. Everyone else has issues huh?

    How hot they are, how quickly they are going to get you hot and boyhered, and ultimately how good at the stuff they are. Are all independant of petty jelaousies and this trust and comminication commie talk
     
  11. monkjr

    monkjr Senior Member

    Well it's CNN...there reporting credibility has gone to shit over the decade.

    Some of that study makes sense but not much if it was stuff common sense didn't tell most people already.
     
  12. daisymae

    daisymae Senior Member

    So I'm not supposed to make noise? Or I can if I'm doing it for the right reasons?
     
  13. wobs

    wobs Senior Member

    its up to you my dear
     

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