Ladies how often are you less than satisfied after sex with your mate?

And do you wish another person would jump right in?

 

I’ve been dissatisfied several times over the years. But I’ll be clear when I say it was almost never because he lacked in any way. Sometimes it was something I was going through.
What do you mean by jump in? Like a tag team situation?

 

The people here on HF are all over the spectrum of sexual experience and answers. Many are in open relationships. I meant when, if you have a multiple sex partner life style, do you ever want a second person to take over where the first didn't get you satisfied.

 

I understand. I have not yet reached that point that I needed to look for outside physical relations. Personally.

 

Same. Usually if I'm not satisfied it's often because I'm not feeling it. Sometimes I know before I start that I won't have a happy ending. Stress or fatigue or whatever the cause might be

 

I've had partners who didn't orgasm during our time together. They either, as indicated earlier, weren't feeling it enough or had too much going on to be relaxed enough to let go. They seemed okay with not having an orgasm as long as they satisfied me. I have returned the favor too. There have been times where in the throes of passion I realize I'm not going to cum. I will have brought her to orgasm and really enjoyed my cock being in her vagina but can only get to the edge and not go over. I don't consider that as less than satisfied though. Sometimes my partner is just as happy knowing I got off because of her. Same with myself. Just the act of having a nice interlude with a beautiful woman is satisfying enough.

 

Lately, quite often. But I've raised the bar pretty high. So my own fault.

 

My wife would say that sometimes before we went at it and I have to say it made me put less effort in. I had a girl I dated prior to my wife and she told me she had extreme difficulty coming to orgasm. Then I was a man on a mission.
Most times I offer to go down on her but she will say something like she doesn’t want to be in the mood. So I just bang one out.

 

My newest FWB has a hard time climaxing. She has all her life. Her former boyfriend has a huge cock and while she loved it in her (well, only in her pussy) she rarely climaxed. Even when she masturbates she really has to be in the mood and do it a certain way to get off. Since she's been like that for so long, she doesn't expect to see the stars when she's with someone. She very much enjoys a man going down on her and she gives great moans as she gets her pussy licked and probed. She's afraid of full anal but wiggles all around if you play with her bum and will eventually take a finger or two in there which makes her very, very wet. And she'll suck cock for an hour nice and slow anticipating an in-mouth release. She love nipple sucking and squeezing. She expects to enjoy all of that but doesn't expect an orgasm. She told me that she's only actually climaxed a few times during penetration by a man. The latest was kind of a stranger that she met at a party this past summer. She was on on the outs with her boyfriend and she had spite sex. He wasn't spectacular but she was very horny and he had her on her back and managed to find the right pace, in the right spot, at the right time and she just popped. Made him pop too and she was as surprised as he was proud. They did it again for a few weeks and she couldn't manage to get over the edge. She's now trying some different toys but so far, all of them feel good but she can't trigger off except in her own special way. It's still good since she told me about her issue even before we ever did anything so now I don't feel too much pressure to give her a climax (although watching her masturbate to a climax makes me really want to be somewhere inside her when she does cum) when we play. And it's very obvious that she's sucked a lot of cock over the years so she's really more of a giver that a getter. Fun girl but I wish there was a magic button I could find.

 

My wife refused to answer at first, but then said, "Only a few times over many years." Then she added: "But I have been less than satisfied every time with a few lovers."

 

She was very understanding, if I had a hard day at work, and was tired, she would do all the work.

 

That amazing but I also do the same for my wife if she had a long day I would take care of her and I can take care of myself later

 

Less than satisfied, sometimes, but that's on me. Wishing someone else was there, never Wishing someone else was there implies a physical reason for not being satisfied. If I'm not satisfied, it's a mental issue. Like we're fighting/not really connected/having a bad day/I don't feel 100%.Nobody else going to fix that.