This question is for the ladies since I don't want a bunch of men coming in here telling me they last 17 hours. So ladies, on average, how long does your man last in bed? Also, when he finishes, is it over? Or does he get a second wind after a few minutes and go again in order to finish you off? And finally, how many of your men actually DO finish you off if they finish before you?
I'll be honest... 5 to 10 minutes on average, I've finished in 30 seconds already...I've lasted 45 minutes already. Depending on, how much foreplay, how horny I am, how tired i am, how much I had to drink all affect how long i last. If I control myself I'll last longer if not as long as i want...but that is also affected greatly by the list above. If i don't focus on controling myself...it can be over rather quickly. when I finish..it's most times over...all those jokes are funny because theres truth to them. can I get a second wind? sure...it takes 10 to 20 min to get going again...depending on the list above. Second time does take longer..sometimes I can't cum...when that happens It's totally all focused on her cumming. Most times, she cums first.. like 75%.... sometimes she doesn't want to cum...this usally leads to me getting oral. I get her off first because I know once I cum it's most times over.
I'd say on average, most of the guys I've been with last about 15 minutes. The guy I'm currently fucking usually lasts about 20 minutes on average. Most of the guys I've been with can only go once. Although the guy I'm with now fucks me at least twice. I've never had a guy try to get me off after the fact.
usually about 20-30 minutes is an average amount of time for the men ive been with. unfortunatley ive never had an orgasm with just sex (although i thoroughly enjoy it) so i dont fit into the equasion. he can go as long as he wants or for 3 seconds. doesnt matter to me.
To the women who said their partner doesn't bother trying to get them off after they're finished, are you usually yearning for more? Of course, the guy would would be missing his penis for a while unless he loves insanely-sensitive borderline-painful sex. But what are some things you'd want your man to do to you after he's done to help you out, if anything? Obviously women would have less of a reason to lie...
I usually last around 5 minutes, if not under or on rare occasion, instead I have trouble getting off from intercourse. My girl has never had an orgasm (ever), but I always make sure she's good, and lately she's been showing some minimal interest in trying to. As far as second wind, or if it continues or whatnot: sometimes when I orgasm I become absolutely asexual and my body gets hypersensitive; and other times I just want to again and again.
my man can last as long as he wants, most of the time. of course it depends on factors such as foreplay, tiredness ect. usually about 30 minutes. once he cums we usually dont have sex again right after, but if I didnt orgasm he usually gives me oral until I do
it's the internet. it's not like anybody here is going to be having sex with anybody else here, so nobody has any actual reason to lie. i know i'm speaking in very broad generalities here, but it seems like women tend to be less secure with themselves than men on average, and therefore have a greater need to brag up their man in order to feel good about themselves. just read some threads on here. yes, there's a lot of sad little men who feel the need to lie about themselves, but there's at least as many women who seem to feel the need to lie about their boyfriends. regardless of the truth of what they are saying, women tend to get much more of their identity from who they are dating. i'd wager that the phrase "my boyfriend" appears on this site three times as often as "my girlfriend." and i'll repeat, these are tendencies and generalities. there are plenty of exceptions, in both genders.
Usually about 20-40 mins unless we only have time for a quickie. Either way, he's always sure to get me off! I'm a very lucky woman! Love you thorabeard!
With my ex I used to be able to last 45 min to an hour, easily. I just trained myself to last a long time, until she had come a few times, and was pretty much worn out. With my current girl, I'm usually done in about 10 min because she's already come, and she's begging me to finish because she can't take any more. Everybody's different. Some girls complain that their guys don't last long enough, and some are begging you to stop :svengo:
To be fair stress and exhaustion have been curbing my timing. Used to be we'd got at it for 1-2 hours. Damn you shitty job with shitty hours. DAAAAAMN YOOOOU! I love you too babe.
I don't have a man. but the few i've been with went a first time and then were ready to go again. even if I don't have an orgasm I enjoy them fucking me and enjoying themselves to the extent where its the soul purpose of having sex. to be part of their experience.
It all depends on the situation. I can try to control myself to last longer, but I've always been affected by the situation. If it was somewhere for a quicky, like in a car while pulled into a dark lot, then it would be like 4 minutes. If we were having a nice experience in the bedroom with foreplay and everything, it would be about 20 minutes once intercourse started.