Ladies: Ever had good sex with a less than endowed guy?

Despite being 6'0 tall and *stupendously handsome, I've avoided sex over the last handful of years because my bedroom confidence is completely tanked by, frankly, my own obsession w/ penis size. For example, my friends roasted me into oblivion a couple years back after this ultra gorgeous woman in our circle let it publicly known she wanted to have sex with me and after they found out that I'd had her in my bed, with her bra off as we both remained otherwise fully clothed all the way through morning without so much as unbuttoning a button; and that my actual IRL excuse to her was that I was tired . The roasting was brutal and well earned, given the outrageous good looks on this woman. I'll spare the reader other tales of cringe and sorrow, but know that this pattern of having a virtual Slip 'N Slide towards sex followed by "It was just a prank bro" has repeated far too often to be explained away by a sleeping disorder, however debilitating. By this point my friends surely think I'm a closeted furry and I don't blame them. As for a picture of what I'm working with:

Mine is on the small side of average, about 3" flaccid, 5.5" erect. The kicker though is I'm small in girth too (edit: just measured it for the first time ever, apparently mine is average at 4.5") hence sex has always lacked that frictional satisfying "fuck" quality for myself, and, I'll go out on a limb and assume for the woman as well, though I've no direct reports to go off of from way back when I was 'in the game'. Intercourse always felt... just okay, for me, and from what I could tell, nothing to write home about for her. I remember the sheer contrast of The Lonely Island's absurdly euphoric "I Just Had Sex" with how I felt after losing my virginity. It was nice... but nothing to anthem about. I've had 5 partners in total and there were definitely sexual highlights, but the intercourse itself was always around a 5/10. Again, didn't ask the girl; felt like the lack of euphoria was fairly obvious. In the years since my last relationship scrolling through my matches felt motivating until I remembered that I could wager a whole Bitcoin that the world's most tepid P n V awaits the both of us, and worse yet, maybe I'll finally meet the girl who won't hide her disappointment and I'll be left more emasculated than I previously thought possible... or something.

Best I can say about my penis -- it stays super hard until I cum, and I usually last 10 to 20 minutes... so hey that's got to count for something... right? Trying to insert some positivity here.


TL;DR- My question to the ladies here: have you ever been with a small guy that possessed this "motion of the ocean" or w/e people are going on about? What made the difference?


*Read: somewhat, according to friends and family

 

This is an obvious “new member” troll! This bozo was complaining about being perfectly normal and average? Ignore button, activate!

 

On the chance the poster is not trolling, I'd say we have yet another victim of porn, where guys with average or even above average sized weiners are left thinking they are small. Here's a link for the original poster. And if he is trolling (he/she is a good writer at least), it's still an important thing to get across to those who believe what they think they are seeing in porn (or are reading on forums like this), is accurate and or representative. Have a look: Unraveling Size

 

According to calcSD, average erection, small flaccid. But the writer disappeared the day he posted, whatever that means.

 

Definitely a troll, reads like big time BS

 

Look all, I exaggerated about my penis. It's about 0.5 cm flaccid and "10in. erect. My doctor is concerned. Should I get a second opinion?

 

A third and fourth as well

 

One of the best sex I have had was with a guy who was 4 inches