I'm 28yrs old and man all I really want is like the topic says. I'm fairly inexperienced. I had sex a dozen times or so but the same prob hits me most of the time. I can get a hard ass dick, I can maintain a hard ass dick, but most times when it comes to penetrating, my dick suddenly doesn't want to really meet his best friend anymore. Have been single all this year, dating someone now and it happened again with her. Anyway that's what's going. Any advice, tips, etc, is greatly appreciated.
Do you feel like the only way to really satisfy her, to prove you're a real man, is fuck her with your hard dick? I'm guessing the answer is yes. If so, you are putting too much pressure on yourself. Try to relax and get her off with your tongue and fingers. Do that a lot. I think when you really get that you can satisfy her without using your dick, you will start to relax and then you won't freak out about penetration. I used to have problems like this; in fact, this is one of the great things about getting older: I have more confidence than ever before because I know for sure I can give her a good time even if my cock won't cooperate.
Maybe refrain from using ass in between hard and dick, and dont refer to, i assume vagina, as your best friend, for take a close look at your best friend next time you two are drinking beer and watching sports, except the beard, hopefully there is no association
My guy was very nervous when we started dating. There were numerous times when he would lose it as soon as he's ready to put it in, or he would switch positions and trip and lose it. Pretty much anything would... It honestly just came with time and trust. Now he has no issues, but it took a good couple of months.
It's common for inexperienced men. This is a sign of sexual performance anxiety. Distract yourself from your worries by thinking about the things that turn you on. Also, stay away from substance abuse.
