Ello, I've always worried that I kiss 'wrongly'. Last night I got with two girls, it was all good and fun, enjoyed it all but I went away wondering if they'd just remember me as a bad kisser. my method tends to be like, tilt my head open my mouth and just slide my tongue into their mouth, not down their throat of anything, eyes closed, hard to explain really. post your kissing methods so I can compare and see if i'm doing it right or wrong
To me there isn't a right or wrong way to kiss.. I kiss in my own way (which is hard to put into words) and for a guy that wouldn't like the way I kiss there's a guy that would.. It depends on the person you're kissing.. For instance, some ppl like to nibble on their partners lips while some don't like it.
Also when I was 13 I had just met this 19 year old guy and by the end of the night he rammed his tongue down my throat and bit my lip so hard I was bleeding on the way home.
I had a bad kisser tell me I was a bad kisser. Funny. But, I mean, if you can get with two girls, I wouldn't worry about whether or not you kiss well.
I don't like the whole tongue shoved down the throat thing or anything to slobbery. Anything else is fine though.
Look, just kiss her with your mouth and hers partly open and gently touch and move your tongue against hers, and experiment with what feels good as your doing it. I love tongue kissing and one touch of my tongue to a guys tongue instantly makes my clit hard-it's such a delicious feeling. God, I love it. Good luck.
Practise with your grandma, she'll love it. Seriously, the art of kissing is just that an art. There are a few things which are definatley a no no, such as biting, ramming the tongue in straight away, too much moisture, not enough moisture, unwanted hickies and some others I can't remember right now. However remember the don'ts and the do's will come naturally. Being in love with the person you are kissing helps (no I am not talking about grandma here) because you will not be thinking about wether you are doing it right or wrong you will just be focused on your partner.
Biting can be nice, if it's done gently. Since this guy's kind of a rookie, he might not be able to figure out what is and isn't gentle at this stage. Don't want him to bite the poor girl's tongue off.
i have no real way that i do it.. every girl i kiss is diffrent.. so you learn to take ques from each other.. like for instance i didnt know my ex liked bitting until i nibbled gently on her ear.. and she went fucking nuts.. she loved it.. so just experiment.. and ask for an honest opinion
as well as whips, chains and being called nasty names. Seriously, a little nip is OK but when it gets painful then there is no romance. I do understand that some people are into the rough stuff but I generally post with the mainstream in mind. Perhaps you could expand why you like a bite to give the young fella some ideas. Do you like getting bitten hard or just a little gentle bite. Do you like your lips getting bitten, your tongue, earlobe, bum, nipples, clitoris? Some people like a bite on the back of the neck and some don't. I suppose there is an animalistic element to biting which takes us back to our roots. Variety and the unexpected are part and parcel of sex, however it pays to take it easy and not draw blood straight away.
Well what I was trying to say is that there really isn't a right or wrong way. For one person who hates it another will love it. Experiment and ask what they like is the best way to go. What I like about biting and where? I dunno it's just a huge turn on for me. I suppose I like the mix of pleasure and pain and I like it almost anywhere but my favorite spot is on the neck. Hard or gentle but mixing them both is great. I like a variety of sensations of all kinds and I suppose it just puts all my sences on overload.
