kind of annoying me

so, my friend catie and i hung out the other day... and she invites me to sleepover at her house saturday, and party with her and some buddies.

but uhm, it seems... my boyfriend says i'm not ALLOWED to.
my understanding is... its because i like girls, and he gets jealous. he compared me sleeping over at my friends house to him sleeping over at some random girls house.
generally, he's a perfect boyfriend, so i don't quite understand where this is coming from. i'm not gonna break up with him over something like this..


but i'm still rather WTF. -_-
grrrrr this is annoyingly stupid.

 

Do it anyway. He can't tell you what you can and can't do.

 

he's just gonna have to get over it

 

Repent of your sinful ways, you bi-curious heathen!







Do what you want, just be honest with your bf.

 

^^ This. However, you are your own person so your boyfriend can't tell you what to do. Just talk it out with him.

 

Its ONLY because he cares about you. Hes not trying to ruin your life or make you miserable. If he didnt love you, he would say "idc do whatever you want, i dont care".

When us guys love a girl, we get very protective. For some reason we always think our girlfriends our going to get drunk and fuck some random person and not remember it the next day

that being said, do what ya want. Im just trying to explain his method of madness

 

this is true..

man... girls wouldn't bother me to much, because my girlfriend is also bisexual but if it was a guys house she wanted to go to? fuck that. us guys tend to be very protective, but girls can be the same way.

 

It's not about being protective. It's about being a jealous control freak.

 

but when girls act this way, it's a whole different story.

that's what I've noticed

 

As long as you don't do anything it doesn't matter.

And if you are gonna do something with a chick make sure he's.... There....

 

That's true. Double standards are fukt up. lol

 

I KNOW, right? Man, there are so many double standards that piss me off... then again, it goes both ways but I've dealt with double standards quite a bit. -.-

 

:cheers2:

 

i was in a relationship like this, and it was veryy annoying, and to be honest it just made me have some resentment.

do what you want, in the long run you want to be happy, not trying to do what someone else wants

 

I'd let my boyfriend sleep over with a bunch of girls. Tell him to have a little trust.

 

You ARE allowed too. You're not his property. He doesn't own you or control you. Waa waa he's jealous. boo hoo. grow a pair jr

 

lol

 

quite honestly i'd tell him to suck it.

or why doesn't he just come along?

 

I used to never care but my ex was Bi n she got ploud by the chick who she was messin with bf....after that I stay away from the bisexual gurls....

 

This.

A lot depends on how boundaries have been set to this point though. Adopting language where he's exerting a say over your social activities and that you must seek his approval bears out what topnotch and a few others have put so succinctly. How would he react if you disallowed one of his social engagements?